3/22/26

 

Dear family,

 

Happy Spring! I love how the cherry blossoms decided to make it in time for the festival. It seems the world is bursting with color and new life. Speaking of, I went to a birthday for a two-year-old and half the women there were large with child. It was exciting to see that people are willing to bring new ones into the world. Bobby and I don’t miss that stage of life, but it was fun to be around everyone for a while. And it was really fun to give a book written by me and illustrated (mostly) by Adriel. I delight in that.

Bobby had to share with me that he dreamed half the sanctuary collapsed. I replied, “Oh yeah? I dreamed our cat would only eat Cheetos.  She refused to eat cat food anymore.” We agreed dreams are weird and left it at that.

               Other lovely and fun occurrences. The middle school group was sitting with boys on one end and girls far on the other side of the room.  Bobby said, “Why don’t you mingle.” This was met with incredulity. “Why would we do that? Boys have cooties and might wipe their boogers on us.”

               I have this habit of enjoying talking with Adriel then putting a bit of news into the prayer requests that are handed in and passed out to pray about. After Bobby heard, “Adriel was in Hawaii and for safe travels back home,” He mentioned, “I don’t like hearing news about my daughter that way.” A High schooler got it, “Yeah, but now we know who the favorite parent is.”

               Sunday morning prayer requests had many family members sick. Bobby was concerned and said, “Agh, I’m surrounded by sick people!” One student had to pipe in with, “I caught my brother blowing his nose! Only sick people blow their noses.”

               A funny thing about spring break is that Bobby is keeping, “Dinner and a movie night” a secret. Youth want to know so badly! One even said, “What if someone has allergies?” Bobby asked, “What allergies?” The student went on to say, “Shrimp.” Bobby assured them dinner would not include shrimp. The student insisted, “But, my friend is allergic . . . to . . . . the unknown.” Bobby said that friend could bring their own dinner.

               I delight in our youth and in our kids. Some friends from work came over Friday evening and commented how polite Seth was and how clean our house was. I am so blessed for both of those facts. It takes work and God gave me just enough to do my part in cleaning, but he also provided a son and husband who do their part as well.

               May you continue to be productive in society. May you find strength in knowing our Lord and may you find delight in how Spring is popping out of the ground all around us.

 

Love and Hugs, Cristy

PS the picture is, bowling . . . with humans.

3/16/26

 

Dear Family,

               Sometimes we make our own joy. I have a friend who gifted me fingernail polish. Normally I don’t bother but I have another friend who said, “It only takes five minutes.” By golly, this is my St. Patrick’s celebration! I hate cooking but painting my nails didn’t take long and it’s fun to look down and see a bit of color. Finding four leaf clovers on the other hand.  That’s one of my hobbies. I’ll give this one to my Irish friend. Maybe she will like it as much as the youth who called one I gave him, “Epic.” How fun to have joy and then to spread it.

               I have been contemplating what gives me joy. What makes me thrilled inside. I’ll list a few and would love to hear yours. My cat purring is a big one. I truly enjoy petting her and getting the instant gratification of the best sound on earth. “Purrrrrr.” I also delight when I win yet another phone game level. They are easy (for the most part) and cute characters dance on the screen for a bit with delight, “Good job!” How fun. When someone decides they want to follow Jesus, that’s very special. I enjoy seeing God at work. I also enjoy looking at pretty landscapes, people smiling, and laughing with others (Just for laughs is on YouTube). I am delighted when I call someone and they pick up with a desire to chat. I enjoy cuddles, little people are sweet but for now Bobby is the only one who is there for that. Good food, yes that’s huge. Seeing others be happy and visiting people I love. I may hate travel but it’s worth seeing family. What about you? What gives you joy?

               I also delight in the youth of our church. When they say fun things, I love laughing with them. Our lesson this week was about the Roman Centurion and how Jesus healed his servant. An interesting concept is how the “Jewish elders” were advocating for this man. They were asking Jesus to help because the man helped them out. Bobby posed the question, “What are Jewish elders?” On student answered with a question, “Old Jews?” And Bobby said, “Yes.”

               Another interesting question Bobby posed, “Did Adam and Even have belly buttons?” He mentioned churches could split over that one. The youth were intrigued but Bobby moved on with the lesson anyway. What do you think?

               Also, when the youth are on scoot boards holding onto a rope – it was fun to see “Bowling, with kids.” They loved it.

               Sunday morning Bobby gave an illustration from driving but mentioned, “Most of you can’t drive though.” There was a general outcry, “I drive!” Many wanted Bobby to know they have these skills. Bobby asked a young 12 year old, “How do you drive?” The answer was, “Illegally.” Nice.

               I am continually blessed when I talk with friends, Bobby, Adriel, Seth and my parents. I delight when they pick up the phone or lean in. Family is delightful and I am glad they are in my life.

               May you also delight in those you love and are around. May you find peace and joy in God’s will and may you delight in the little things – fun though they are. Happy St. Patrick’s day! Google St. Patrick – it’s a great story.

               Also, please pray for our church. The youth room flooded again last night. I think this is very stressful for everyone involved.

 

Much love, Cristy

3/8/26

 Dear Family,    

                I enjoy consistency and the beauty of people echoing each other. The connections we make in life can be quite beautiful. One of our leaders was out sick on Wednesday night. When Bobby finished the ending prayer someone sang, “Amen.” Just like Rich usually does with a similarly nice baritone! I had to turn around and see if Rich actually was there.  No, one of our youth now has a deeper voice and there you have it. A beautiful echo of a leader passing on mannerisms to the younger generation. It warmed my heart.

               When Bobby mentioned, “Soda will be there still,” about our youth room one student mis-heard. “Soda will be spilled?” Another student piped in, “Well, if you will be there – yes, soda will be spilled.” Indeed, that person does spill soda. We unraveled the original message eventually.

               Also on Wednesday night two of our young people were talking about their hobbies and I said, “You should share phone numbers with each other.”  They did and I am so glad for them. New friendships forged in youth can be lifelong friends.  Also one of our youth has signed up to help with Azimuth our upcoming Saturday night service. How exciting and timely – God is at work in Salem Oregon.

               Please pray with us as the Easter launch is coming up soon. 

 

Love and hugs,

 

Cristy 

3/2/26

 

Dear Family,

 

Sometimes disaster strikes. This is our time to show people what Christians are really like. Do we crumble, do we grumble, do we stumble? Or can we lean on God’s grace, carry on, and share His love anyway. This was a hard week for Bobby because the youth room flooded. He has been creative in the use of different rooms, and I have enjoyed seeing him shine even when his heart is heavy and his mind is whirling.

               Last week a student started promoting their small, crocheted animal Kenneth. They are nominating this Triceratops to be the Youth Group mascot. This student was bringing a petition around asking people to sign it. When one student hedged, she became insistent. He said, “I need more information. Does Kenneth read the Bible every day? What is his testimony?” When the answers weren’t coming in as rapidly as he was asking, she insisted anyway. He signed. As she happily left, he told me secretly, “I didn’t use my real name.” Oh my. These questions have now been answered. Kenneth had no family when he was young and he had to live in stores or even on the street. She found him, took him home to his new home and cleaned him. She introduced him to the Bible, church, and camp. Now Kenneth is a strong Christian with a personal relationship with the Lord and would like to help others come to the point that he has reached. Kenneth also reads the Bible daily but hasn’t finished the Song of Songs because he’s too young. Kenneth will represent joy and happiness as the Youth Group Mascot. What do you say? Do you vote yay or nay?

               Bobby was talking about having a mentor and how it’s important to listen to people that are older. When Bobby said, “Take advantage of old people.” I did have to chuckle. I knew what he meant. Anyway, many of our young people may be learning to drive soon and Bobby said a certain someone would be a good to person to ask about driving. He is now retired from driving long haul so he would be perfect. One student piped up with, “He would be ‘Glad’ to help us.” It took me a little bit – Oh the man’s last name is Glad. That was a good one!

               May you press on, with God’s help, even when you have hard times. May you find joy in the journey and may God’s love fill your heart. Love and hugs, Cristy

2/23/26

 

Dear Family,

 

               Rainy days are good for reading a book and feeling thankful for a roof. So many people do not have shelter, and this is quite sobering. May we be the type of people who give financially when we can. I am also blessed to have time for volunteering at the UGM (Union Gospel Mission) thrift store. I enjoy posting things for them on Craigslist (https://salem.craigslist.org/search/sss?userpostingid=7915203150#search=2~gallery~0) . One employee says they get a flurry of calls after I post and then sometimes things sell. Yay!! So if you are looking for a commercial fried ice cream maker or rooftop car storage hamburger case for $200. UGM is the place to go. When you do buy from the thrift store you are helping the men’s mission and Simonka the women’s shelter.

               Tuesday night middle school was truly worth the trudge through the long rainy driveway. The youth are delightful and I enjoy watching them grow. Also hearing the interactive lessons gives me great joy. Bobby brought up the verse about Jesus being the vine and us being the branches. Bobby went on to explain with stories about our raspberry vines and how when I prune them – the branches that are pruned wither up. One student had to point something out with such high brow superior knowledge, “Uh, Bobby, those aren’t grapes.”

               Bobby asked middle schoolers if they would like to go to the new Mandalorian movie coming out. I mentioned to a female next to me that I’ll never go to a theater again. She was surprised. “Why not?” My answer, “I can’t do laundry, play on my phone, or pause the movie when I need to go to the bathroom” had a strange effect. She said, “I’m done with you.” This is from someone I like and I believe she also likes me. Youth, they pull no punches.

               The high school group was full of delightful banter. One student felt chagrined during the lesson time. “Bobby, that’s harsh”. Bobby said, “You’re an Eagle Scout, you can handle it.” The student playfully said, “I’m gonna cry.” He did not cry but it did make some of us chuckle.

               I had the privilege of teaching a smaller group for Sunday morning. The lesson included Jesus’ parable about the first being last in Matthew 20:25-28. I mentioned being a good leader meant we would have to let go of something. People looked at me with question marks. I said, “It starts with a S and ends with elvish”. One person got it, “Selfish!” the rest mentioned, “Ohhh, that’s not what I was thinking”. Some people thought we might have to give up shellfish to be good leaders.

               Either way, one youth did not hesitate (before the lesson) to ask, “Why doesn’t Bobby come back from the retreat to teach Sunday school? He’s so much better.” Luckily I have a thick skin – they don’t even know that could be taken as an insult. I just enjoy them.

               May you also enjoy those you interact with.  May you find strength in our Lord, and may you love simply because you are so very loved.

 

Hugs,

 

Cristy

2/16/26

 

Dear Family,

 

God’s abundant display of beauty consistently fascinates me during my bicycle commute. The sun shining in my path was a bit disconcerting. I couldn’t see a thing. Thank goodness, as a bicyclist, I could go five feet over and be in the tree lined sidewalk. Ah, I could see! That light was so bright and so there, I did have to take a picture. Believe me, it was brighter than a picture could ever convey.

               Both middle school and high school were delightful evenings. One evening a student’s prayer request was for the concerts they would be performing in. A leader asked, “What kind of Concerts?” The student replied, “Music” There was enough laughter and I got the giggles. Our leader paused then, “Choir, Orchestra?” The student replied, “Yes,” And that’s meant they had both.

               Bobby and I enjoyed a relaxing Saturday Valentines day. It rained, so no need to garden. We went out for lunch and simply enjoyed each other’s company. I truly enjoy parallel play. We also watched 50 first dates which has two of my favorite actors in it. Yeah 😊.

               May your delight be in the little things. May you find strength in knowing you are truly loved. May you find peace in your heart and in the world around you. Hugs,

 

Cristy

              

2/9/26

 

Dear Family,

 

               If your highlight of the day is, “Seth said goodbye to me today.” Well, it’s a funny day. I laughed when Bobby said that. This is how much Seth communicates with us. My family is somewhat similar. We didn’t consider something Bobby and his family think is a necessity. “Let me know when you get there (a different town) so I know you are safe.” I thought that was the most ridiculous ask ever. “When I get there, I won’t be thinking of you at all, I’ll be with the people I am with. Why in the world would I call you? It’s not going to happen” (This is before texting.) Anyway, now that we have a son who doesn’t see the need to let us know if he’s coming or going, maybe now Bobby understands how the other side lives. Does your family think this is something you should do?

               Tuesday and Wednesday night were both quite pleasant. Believe me, bicycling from work, showering and getting into cozy sweats is a great end to a day. Getting up and going out to youth group must be rewarding enough to leave home again. And our youth are fabulous people, lovely, fun, sweet and learning. Also, they crack me up sometimes. We have one person who usually likes to read out of the “Y’all” version of the Bible. I’ll admit, I love it. The whole concept of plural being so out there tickles my funny bone and it seems to make the words jump out of the page. Bobby had several people read and was chagrined. What version are you going to read out of? The young person said, “Y’all shall see.” Read 1^st Peter 1:1-2 and understand what happened next. “Peter, an apostle of Jesus Christ, to those who are living as foreigners scattered throughout Pontus, Galatia, Cappadocia, Asia, and Bithynia, who are chosen according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, by the sanctifying work of the Spirit, to be obedient to Jesus Christ and sprinkled with his blood: Grace and peace be multiplied to y’all.” We all burst out because it didn’t sound like a different version, but it was. How fun.

               Sunday morning was more of the same. One person who usually says, “Everything” for a prayer request mentioned a praise. “I want to say that something I was hoping to happen did happen and I’m very glad.” The way this was so eloquently put everyone clapped, except Bobby. He was frustrated. “Can you tell us what it was you wanted to happen?” “No.” Bobby doesn’t like praying for unspoken requests. Another person asked, “Was it, ‘EVERYTHING?’” No, it wasn’t.” This just had the crowd mesmerized. Rich had to pipe in with, “I also have an unspoken request.” This time Bobby knew that one was a joke and he was able to let things go.

               Another student mentioned, “Pray for my pregnant mom.” Bobby said, “Can you put that in the form of a prayer request? Because this could go so many places.” Well, the student named their new brothers name and said, “That the baby comes out this month.” Oh, we had a name (Sadly I completely forgot it because), the youth said, “Want to hear names I have been suggesting?” I most definitely did. So, with the last name of Holmes the baby should be named, “Sherlock.” I said, “Yes! That’s how I remember your last name in the first place.” Or another suggestion was, “Robin.” Ha, ha, that one is just silly. But I still like it.

               I do have to mention I enjoy having a coworker back. She was gone for a month and I missed her shenanigans. Sometimes she will lay hands on the printer that acts up and pretend to speak in tongues over it. (Usually while turning it off and on.) This reminded me of the above far side. Good times. I enjoy people with a sense of humor.

               May you also be delighted with those around you. May you find joy in those you live with, work with and play with. May God grant you wisdom with everyone you encounter. Much love,

 

Cristy