Dear Family,
Preparation and timing are key. Bobby started preparing for Christmas eve and
Christmas dinner days before they happened.
God also prepared for our salvation and it took 30 years for Jesus to
grow up, minister to people, and eventually die. Goodness – what a plan. Yet so many farmers, breeders, and entrepreneurs
live with the end game in mind. Some
plans take a lifetime to achieve. Do you
have a long-term goal in mind? Do I?
Bobby made ham for Christmas eve,
Turkey for Christmas, salad, potatoes, pies, etc. Then he thanked me for all my hard work! I wondered what in the world he was talking
about and he had to clarify that I clean.
What a great husband I have. He
works hard and is thankful for everything.
Bobby and I had a nice date earlier
in the week and enjoyed being together and eating Irish food. I actually liked cabbage in a burger! Bobby made potato onion soup earlier in the
week. He’s done cooking till next
year.
We had family over on Christmas eve
and I have to relive some fun conversation.
When Seth heard one person was allergic to cats yet had two he said, “That’s
a great idea, whatever could go wrong?” Later
someone mentioned that they hated fishing but wouldn’t mind going along and
reading a book next to the person fishing.
Seth said, “But that’s not fishing, it’s reading a book.” I like Seth’s quick, sharp wit.
Seth bought his friend a gift and
was surprised at how much joy his friend felt.
When Adriel and Bobby heard of this they both exclaimed that he never
buys us presents. I also made him
make an appointment with our financial advisor since he has money coming in but
not going out. Then Seth did give
us Christmas gifts. That was a first and
it was very kind of him.
Bobby did a great job Christmas
shopping for our family. This is now his
job and not mine. Yeah!
Adriel came over for several visits and helped
me with my hair. She is so sweet. Adriel didn’t mind an extended hug from Caren
and I thought it was cute that she settled in for however long Caren wanted. We all need a long hug sometimes. Later, after a visit with the Duvals Adriel
mentioned and I agreed that there is a warm feeling when with them – we really
do feel part of their family.
Bobby bought some Boba Fett art
and put it in our guest room. I didn’t
notice it for two weeks so I guess it’s staying. For some reason, I am tickled that he’s
trying out passive-aggressive relating.
It’s my MO and seems to work the best.
I also taught baby Adriel to roll her eyes. I know assertive is the most healthy way to
relate but passive-aggressive is so much more entertaining. Bobby insists he wasn’t being passive-aggressive
but playful.
I thanked the family for doing the
dishes. When they denied it I remembered
that I had done it the night before.
Bobby laughed and said, “You weren’t even joking about thanking us.” Ohh, foibles!
May you delight in your own family's
foibles. We are not perfect but we are
loved. May your love stem from God’s
overflowing and blessings. May you
rejoice in all that he is. Much love,
Cristy
PS, the Christmas service was beautiful and meaningful as ever. This might be our last with Pastor Marcus so it is fun to capture the moment.
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