Monday, June 16, 2025

6/16/25

 Dear Family,

 


               When we choose to celebrate even in hard times, we are glad we came.  And that is what Seth said about his uncle’s celebration of life.  How drastically sad that my brother-in-law has passed away and yet how beautiful that we saw his life on the screen.  We found out so many things we didn’t know about him.  We love him more for that and we find joy in knowing that his memory will go on and his children will be his legacy.  They are such amazing people.  We are blessed to know them.

               Bobby drove both ways and chatted with Adriel so much I was amazed that they really had that many words.  But they did!  I am glad Adriel kept him Awake because the drive was late at night. I dozed most of the way home.

               We socialized with my parents while in the Seattle area and it was interesting to find out why dad has decided to use a walker.  First, he did fall six times in two weeks.  That probably hurt, but even more than the peer pressure everywhere he went were the testimonials of friends who fell and broke body parts.  That would be a cautionary tale.  My dad is good at crumpling instead of slamming into things.  Dad falls with style.  We talked about how that was good and Seth teased by pretending to fall while saying, “This was plaaaaned.”  I thought that was pretty funny.  I am glad we can laugh about growing older.  “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”  James 1:2.

               One of the many things Bobby is good at is throwing a party.  Our end of the school year bash went off quite well!  He had chicken, steak, rice and noodles.  One rice was tasty fried rice.  We have watched enough “Uncle Roger” on YouTube for him to know the rice had to be refrigerated overnight.  I enjoy comedy, Bobby enjoys learning things – it’s both!  Yay.  And we didn’t run out of food even though over 50 people came.  The above picture is from that event.

               Bobby made yummy food other nights for our family.  I feel so blessed to be his.  I kind of wish I had his stamina when it comes to socializing.  I want to love people more but run out of energy and my body just hurts.  He went to three parties last weekend.  Then he went to three more this last weekend.  I only lasted at one this weekend.  I wanted to go to the other one but I pooped out.  Maybe I should find some vita-vita-vegamin.  As it is, I have my own prescription pain killer and that helped me recover from the one party.  Some of our youth are so special – I want to honor and celebrate them but goodness.  I only have so much energy.

               May you also enjoy the people you are surrounded by.  May you find grace and love to be kind to all.  May you have enough energy to find joy in all God has for you.

 

Much love, Cristy

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