Monday, December 2, 2024

12/2/24

 Dear Family,


 

               Aren’t holidays fun?  I am so grateful that our family gathered, enjoyed each other’s company, and were excited to interact with each other.  I even stayed awake late into Wednesday night as Bobby drove us into the Seattle area just because I enjoyed listening to Adriel and Bobby talk. 

               Several favorite interactions: When Aunt Sue came over, she looked at Adriel and Braeden with surprise because for a second there she thought they were Anita and Doug.  The grand-girls raided my dad’s closet to wear his big bold America shirts and dance in them.  That was delightful and hilarious. Talking with Adriel about the job she loves at the skate park because those relationships are special to her – but then – when she mentioned sometimes, she has to tell them, “I’m working, I can’t answer you now.”  And when I related that to how Bobby sometimes couldn’t be a dad at church because he was working.  Adriel took that in and said, “Yeah, that makes sense how I might have a bad taste for church in general.”  I liked the epiphany of it.  (Not the fact of how pastors kids sometimes feel.)  Talking with Doug about how life is for him.  It was special to see him.  Laughing with family while playing a game.  Amazing food, mom’s stuffing and cranberry Jello.  I also will always have this beautiful picture in my head of a man on a loud scooter with a trailer trailing behind and a cat riding his shoulders.  Wow – that cat.  I always loved the idea of a small cat riding on my shoulder.  Portland is a lovely city and has the most interesting people in it.

               Because we cannot force him to join us, Seth stayed home to do homework and watch Skyra (the cat).  He was missed but staying home allowed Seth to do his homework and remove a lot of stress.  Such is life.  I was surprised he didn’t go visit a loving family that invited him several times to their place.  I said, “I’m surprised you didn’t go for the free food.”  His response was, “There is free food here.”  Sigh, we might be enabling him.  Bobby cooked extra food just so Seth wouldn’t starve.   

               I am also blessed by safe, uneventful drives with not too much traffic.  Bobby is a great driver, and I enjoy sleeping.  I did enjoy having Adriel sit in the front and I am still pretty amazed that they talked both ways, nonstop.  They have a lot to say.  I love it.  I joined in a bit but enjoyed relaxing more than anything.

               May you also enjoy the company of those you love.  May you find strength in God’s power working through you to do His will.  May you enjoy the family he has given you.

 

Much love, Cristy

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