12/7/25

 

Dear Family,

 

               The business of this season can be overwhelming.  I want to do so much!!  I’m sure you also have opportunities to be overwhelmed.  I’m so glad I also can say, “No.” It may feel impossible to keep up but we can also let go and be at peace.  Decorating was fun – especially the youth room.  We had so many extra lights.  Both of our parents gave us a lot of lights.  I even had enough to share with Adriel.  She and her roommate were delighted with the festive feeling.  I really enjoyed bringing her lights and some Chili Verde that Bobby made.  She is such a delightful person, and I enjoy her company very much. 

I commented on how cool Adriel’s pants were and she mentioned that she had sewn the part I liked on.  How cool is that?!! Adriel and I did enjoy sewing projects when she was a child – we didn’t really follow a pattern – we just had fun with extra cloth and made things.  We have a picture of little Seth hugging a something she made for him.  I really love that Adriel is continuing the tradition!  I even felt inspired to alter a Rooted sweatshirt.  It turned out well.  The sleeves have thumb holes and are thinner now.  I love my very old, newly remodeled sweatshirt.  It’s not just cool, it’s better than new to me.  I’m thankful for Adriel’s inspiration.

               Adriel also asked me for pictures of Uncle Cecils house.  She was trying to describe this one-day visit with someone who had a hobby of African safaris.  He had more museum than house.  It was quite amazing.  I sent her several pictures including the one above.  This is where we obtained Bruce the Rhino from.

               Middle school group was delightful as usual.  I did enjoy it when Bobby asked the youth to read.  Someone said, “I have the passage.”  After a pause Bobby said, “Why don’t you read it?”  The person said, “I don’t like reading.” 

               Bobby was telling the middle schoolers that our next event (singing carols) would bring joy to the elders of the church.  Someone had to tease a girl named Joy.  “Here is Joy, we present you to the elders.”  He, he, he.

               The high School group was energetic and fun.  They were trying to fill in the blanks but one was a little late to the table.  Bobby had moved from, “Christmas is busy with . . . Shopping, P_ _ _ _ _ _ _ (Presents), F _ _ _.  He was trying to give a hint for the last one.  “What is the best Christmas food?”  Someone shouted out, “Friends!”  That was a fill in the blank for something Christmas is busy with – the timing though – well – Friends are not good for eating. 

               I enjoy laughing so much.  May you delight with me in our young people and in life in general.  Thank you for reading as I record the fun things God is doing in and around our world.  Love and hugs,

 

 

 

Cristy

Thanksgiving blessings

 Dear Family,

              Sometimes Bible reading can be quite entertaining.  Psalm 22 is anything but boring when someone reads, 22:9, “Yet you brought me out of the womb; you made me trust in you, even at my mother’s boobies.”  This brought much delight and laughter.  Breast has never been interpreted so fun.

Any prayer request that starts with, “That my girlfriend” – might be an announcement.  Bobby was intrigued – “This is the first I have heard of your girlfriend! Is she nice? (Yes), does she live near? (Yes), Is she a Christian? (Yes).  Well, OK then.”  We may have moved on but having a girlfriend was mentioned several times.  This person’s sister and cousin were both rolling their eyes.  “I think that prayer request was all about letting everyone know he has a girlfriend.”  How daring 😉.  How funny.  And that was just last weeks Sunday School.

This last week Bobby took time off to rest from some hectic times.  He also prepared to drive us to the Seattle area and back for Thanksgiving festivities with my parents, sister, Uncle and a new addition I hope to see often.  Doug’s brother Jimmy is such a sweet, gentle and kind person. 

We had a great time and laughed so many times and our hearts were filled.  Some things I recall.  “There’s a lazy Susan over there.” “Poor Susan, she got a bad wrap.”  There is a drawing game that we enjoy playing together.  We delight when a flamingo turns into a dancer or a tuxedo turns into a broken shoulder.  It’s fun to see how drawings and guesses can be so wrong. 

Enjoying my parent’s company is always a blessing.  They hang on our every word and are so loving.  Mom also makes amazing turkey, stuffing and cranberry Jello.  Everyone contributed something and I enjoyed eating some leftovers the next day.

Bobby drove us safely home and I it’s great to have time to not only write this but decorate and prepare for the holidays.  We had Sunday school again and it was fun to keep reading Psalms.  Psalm 45:17 started out a little rough when someone read, “I will perpetrate” instead of, “"I will perpetuate your memory through all generations; therefore the nations will praise you forever and ever".  Bobby had to correct them – “There’s a big difference.”

May you also decide to share God’s word through those around you and that come behind you.  (Instead of perpetuating anything: intend to commit or carry out a harmful, illegal, or immoral act.) Warmly,

 

Cristy

              

I saw a rat under the desk, and we made eye contact. 11/23/25

When it moved 1/8^th of an inch I jumped so fast, I hit Bobby.  He said, “Wahhh?” I opened my eyes and realized I had been dreaming.  I apologized, “Sorry, I’m in bed, there is no rat, that was a very realistic dream.”  My first jump scare dream at the age of 50!  Have you had any dreams like that?

               I truly enjoyed this week!  Bobby made youth group a Friendsgiving event.  Everyone brought interesting toppings for pancakes, and we enjoyed them so much.  I learned that caramel mixed with peanut butter on top of pancakes tastes like heaven in my mouth.  Sooo amazing!  I also enjoyed it when my table of middle schoolers wanted to hold hands for prayer.  I felt so at home and loved in that moment.

               I delighted in showing someone a silly video called, “Road work ahead, I sure hope it does!” and tried to share the joy with Adriel.  She said it was funny that this was my first sight as this was old.  Well then, a teen shared a man playing trombone while his son played the oven as a drum.  That cracked me up.  I think Adriel liked it as well.

               The high schoolers were also enjoyable.  I loved coloring with them, chatting and trying peanut butter with chocolate syrup.  It’s pretty good.  I enjoyed watching three youth chase each other as they played keep away from a phone and simply enjoyed a fun night with games, chatting and amazing food.

               My dad’s health is a concern.  His next surgery to get water off the brain will be for next month.  Thank you for your continued prayer about this.

               Babies are still coming into the world.  I felt blessed to be included and invited to a baby shower.  How sweet little ones are and how blessed we are to welcome them with love and gifts. 

               The picture is Salem on my wonderful commute.  I get to see the sun rise most mornings these days.  It’s quite lovely.

               May you find strength in knowing our Lord.  May you find peace and joy in each person you meet today and the whole week. 

 

Much love, Cristy

Allergies 11/16/25

 Dear Family,

 

I am so glad that I was evaluated for allergies this week.  It’s a much better prognosis BUT a little embarrassing.  I am more allergic to dust mites than anything else.  Cats – a little.  Now we can act accordingly and figure out ways to combat microscopic creatures.  Yuck! We ordered two things and will wash sheets more often.  Yay God, there are practical steps to take.  It’s also very good that I am not allergic to Bobby.

I think the allergist found me amusing.  I told him that if I was allergic to cats I have to be allergic to dogs as well because I don’t want a dog.  He said, “That’s not how it works.”  Drat.  The numbers on the left are what I am allergic to.

I thoroughly enjoyed spending time with my friend on Veterans Day.  She loves free stuff and mapped out the town.  I enjoyed listening to her stories and am so glad people all said, “Thank you for your service,” to her.  That was very cool.

Tuesday night still included middle school group.  I enjoy our youth so it was fun to see them.  Also, there were more girls than boys again, so Bobby had me order pizza.  How fun.  Yay for participation.

Bobby was talking about keeping our “Thanks Tank Full” and brought in how God is faithful to us.  He also made an analogy with a picture of a bride and groom.  The fill in the blank was.  Faithfulness is a _ _ _ deal. . .  it’s seen in

c _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _.  His hint was, “What do brides and grooms do?”  Someone had to say, “Kiss”.  The answer was right, but does not start with a C.  I’ll tell you at the bottom.

The high school group was also very fun.  Bobby was letting people know that God gives us help.  For some reason he got to a part where he said, “If you are racing to Sunday school.”  I had to smile when two teens who might happen to race cars, fist bumped with a knowing smile.  Bobby is very against racing in cars, just in case you were wondering.

Also we have a “Friendsgiving” event coming up where we will eat pancakes and everyone can bring an interesting topping.  Bobby did have to say they can’t bring possum.  “No, no possum.”  Things you never guess you will have to make rules about.

Adriel has been very caring when it came to the allergist appointment.  She is a wonderful listener and shows her heart when she asks open ended and clarifying questions.  I am loved and it shows.

Seth let me borrow his car while mine was in the shop.  I appreciated that on grocery runs especially.  I am glad he eats food I don’t appreciate enough.  Bobby is a wonderful cook, I just don’t like meat as much as Seth and Bobby do.

May you appreciate the people you are close to.  May you find good things to say to and about them.

 

Much love, Cristy

And the answers are, “Big” deal, and “commitment.”

 

11/9/25

 

Dear Family,

 

               Finally, a weekend when I am home!  It can be exhausting taking trips even if they are celebrations, a Women’s retreat or pastors retreat.  My soul can only manage so much.  I really enjoy being home and tending to things that call me.  Replanting flowers isn’t fun when I am doing it BUT this creates an opportunity to share with neighbors or friends because these bulbs not only grow in our habitat, they flourish.  How fun in the spring or summer when they happily show themselves to be alive yet again.  Delayed gratification really does have its place.

               It was also enjoyable to gather for youth group.  Bobby purposefully had five people read a verse that repeated itself.  Psalm 107:1, 8, 15, 21 and 31 all sound the same.  This created consternation with the middle school group.  “Hey, they are reading my verse!” One person even said, “Swiper, no swiping,” said another.  (A cute reference to Dora the explorer.)  IE – don’t read my verse! It is for me to read.  It was fun when Bobby mentioned that everyone had the right verse – they all just reinforced his point.

               One fill in the blank triggered my mind to think of someone who always wants to pray for, “Everything” on Sunday morning.  This person also mentions they don’t like Bobby’s fill in the blanks.  Sometimes they say, “Stupid word.”  When Bobby’s fill in the blank was “Everything” that person came to mind.  I am so glad they came to youth group Wednesday night.  They seemed a bit confused by my attention, but two other Sunday School attenders got it – Ohhh “Everything” that is so and so’s word.

               Bobby did ask the crowd what languages the Bible was written in.  I thought it was funny when someone mentioned, Hebrew, Greek and Aromatic.

               Please do pray for me as I am miserable.  I made an appointment last week with an allergist for Friday the 14th.  They asked me to stop taking antihistamines 5 to 7 days before the appointment so that if they evaluate me -  my results would show up.  I chose to stop taking them at once and am experiencing puffy, itchy, burning eye lids that swell really bad in the morning.  I took them again for a couple of days but know that the next days are not going to be fun.  It’s not dangerous but I am miserable.  Please pray the office decides to evaluate me during that appointment.  I know I am allergic to something but don’t know if it’s the cat, Bobby or something else.

               Thank you for your love and concern.  Thank you for your prayers.  Love and hugs,

 

Cristy

So much going on! 11/3/25

 

Dear family,

               I haven’t mentioned our kids lately and must apologize.  I had a funny moment with Seth last week when I was unloading groceries.  My friend had texted saying she wanted to pick me up early for our woman’s retreat trip.  I mentioned that I was coming home and expected to leave in a half an hour BUT if she wanted to help unload groceries, I would love her company.  She said she was coming right over.  When I got home, I asked Seth to help unload groceries and he was in the middle of something, as usual.  I mentioned it was OK, my friend was coming over to help.  He untangled himself from his computer work and was beginning to help when my friend came in.  Seth was curious.  “Did she come over just to help unpack groceries?”  I said, “Yes” and he was a bit confused.  Then I said, “Nah, you can take over.” And he did.  It was fun to see him pondering the situation. 

               Adriel went up to the Seattle area twice last week to help my sister unpack.  I was jealous of this but had other plans.  I do love my sister and nieces and nephews.  I am very grateful Adriel not only represents our family well but motivates the younger girls to be helpful and cooperative.  Moving is so stressful.  I think I would be in the way – but Adriel – she brings joy wherever she goes.

               Middle school youth group was very fun.  During game time Bobby had some fake vampire teeth.  He had one student read a tongue twister while another tried to guess what they were saying.  The teeth made the words come out funny and it was great seeing them laugh at themselves.

               Our church encountered fire this week and everyone is glad this happened during the day when the blaze was discovered within three minutes of the start.  A light bulb decided to become a flame and that was a bit on the crazy side.  Everyone was safe and that was a blessing for sure.

               Wednesday night activities for the entire church were cancelled so we didn’t have High School group.  This was sad but Bobby’s back was hurting, and we wanted to avoid confusion.  It’s also a blessing that Bobby’s tweaked back is a muscle issue and not a disk one.  Yay!  He seems to be on the mend, please pray for him to get even better.

               Our church candy fest was full of fun.  I enjoy the costumes, candy and excitement when little people throw or toss a stuffed pumpkin into a bowl.  People in general can be delightful.  Giving people candy, even more so.

               May you also enjoy time with others and all you encounter.  Love and hugs, Cristy

              

10/26/25 NAB retreat

 

Dear Family,

 

               I must admit, my favorite blessing this week made me wiggle with joy at first but then cringe a bit as I became saturated.  McDonalds Monopoly is happening and I still have about 10 free items to claim (from using digital entries).  Yet, I will have to admit, there is too much of a good thing even from my favorite restaurant.  I can only eat so many free apple-pie pastries before I’m done.

               Ahhhhh, but youth group always has so many fun instances of silliness and learning about God in the best ways. Several new people came, and I loved that during lesson time one young person was eager for their friend to hear the gospel message. Bobby asked, “What is a reason we can rejoice?”  Their answer was, “We can rejoice that being saved only means you have to believe.”  There it is folks, grace. Our salvation is through God’s grace.  Bobby did take that and run with the explanation of Jesus dying for our sins.  Yay!!

               Bobby then talked about how happiness is external – about something you just got (like my free McDonalds food) and joy is internal.  Joy lasts.  His illustration was, “How do you think Rich would feel if I gave him a new truck?”  Rich said, “Uhhh, awkward.”  I piped in, “Because he would be wondering what your wife thought of this purchase.”  I was not shy about my disapproval.  Bobby’s retort, “You are ruining my example.”  I think our youth did understand what he was talking about though.  He went on to say that if the new truck was scratched the joy might be lost. 

               The illustration went over much better during High School group when Bobby mentioned, “What if I was to buy Everest a new truck.”  Now that person, he lit up with evidence that this action would give him much happiness.  It was fun to watch.

               Sometimes Bobby’s fill in the blanks are such big college words people say, “I don’t like that word,” or, “Stupid word!”  Bobby countered with, “I’m rejoicing in your presence – even though you are wrong.”  I am glad we have fun with the youth.  They are a blast to be around.

               This weekend was the Seaside pastors retreat.  Rainy thought it was we praised God in heartfelt worship, soaked in God’s word and even had some fun private aerobics early in the morning.  Also, the picture above was a lovely time with the pastors of West Hills.

               During the conference I enjoyed hearing how other churches are doing, what God is doing in their places of ministry, AND what God can do with missions and NAB.  God is truly at work, and I am excited to be part of it. Also, it was fun to play Azul with friends.  They loved the game and so did I.

               May you find that each adventure God gives you is a blessing.  May your life reflect how much God loves you.  May you enjoy life, be a giving person and find strength in knowing you are loved quite dearly.

 

Hugs, Cristy

10/19/25

 

Dear family,

 

Being over the hill isn’t that bad at all.  I can still ride my bicycle over hills, and that is a big deal to me.  When I lose that ability, I will be sad.  For now, I feel blessed.  I am very glad for that mode of transportation.  It saves us $100 of gas a month, and who knows, in parking.  I also enjoy the commute.  I am thrilled to see the changing weather and the beautiful town we live in.

Middle school group had four new faces.  It was fun to greet a Corban student while trying to figure out her fit.  I thought I got it when I said, “You are not a middle schooler, you are a parent!”  Nope, someone figuring out if helping out would be a good fit.  Ohhhh, how fun.  We also had three wiggly boys.  They were super disruptive but so endearing as well.  Bobby’s estimation of the night: “That was fun.”

Bobby mentioned a story during the lesson about being wanted.  God chooses us.  Bobby remembered a time when he was playing football with a new group of people on Thanksgiving Day.  They chose teams like middle school, and he was picked last because he was older and smaller.  That brought back some feelings.  The next year, though, he was picked first (which was fun for him).  The man who picked him said, “I just picked you because I don’t want to ever be tackled by you again.”  This brought some comments.  “That is real,” which also meant, “I don’t want to ever get tackled by you either.”  Some of our students are smaller, but one thing they do know.  Bobby has force, energy, and strength, and that is just his personality!

One more interaction made me smile.  One person asked another, “Why don’t you like your face getting wet?”  The answer was said firmly stated as the obvious.  “Autism.”  And that makes moms of people with Autism smile.  Yes, that would do it.  Sensory issues are a thing.

High school group also has some fun times.  When Bobby asked us to write down three characteristics of our personality, he didn’t expect to hear this one from one of our older males, “I start listening to Christmas music in September.”  This was hard for Bobby to comprehend.

There was a point when Bobby couldn’t find his phone.  He looked around, and I asked if he wanted me to call him.  Rich mentioned it didn’t matter since it was on silent.  Lo and behold, it was right next to Rich.  The thief, who was chuckling. 

I enjoy shenanigans.  I love laughing.  May you also enjoy when people give you that interesting kind of attention, and may your joy be complete when your life is still OK, especially since it will not matter in five years. 

Much love, Cristy

And that picture?  Well I found a friend that wants plants so instead of having to put them free on the sidewalk she gladly took them.  Yay!

I am now 50 years old

 

Dear Family,

                Celebrating is so much fun.  I am glad for time to enjoy family when my Birthday came around this year.  Thank you also friends, for your birthday wishes. You are so kind 😊.

               Youth group continues to be fun.  During lesson time, when a leader asked, “Do we need to be saved just once?”  A teen had to tell his story.  He’s been saved six times (prayed the prayer) and baptized four times (once professionally).  This young man brought up that he’s baptized himself the other three.

               I had to crack up when the kids pushed Bobby several times with,  “Are we your favorite youth group?”  Finally, he said, “Yeah, sure, whatever.”  Then had to mention that one of the kids has now turned 40 from our first youth group.  We have a lifetime relationship with some people.  We can’t say anyone is our favorite really.  But it was funny when the youth said, “Yes!”

               When Bobby said, “Tell me something that is better when old. We had answers varying from movies (better than the remake), house “It has memories”, coins, and Bobby’s favorite was, “Rich”.  We didn’t know him when he was younger but we do know we like Rich now – especially in his Ripe old age, LOL.

               When Bobby mentioned our youth can volunteer during the church Candy Fest the youth had questions especially regarding “No scary Costumes”.  One person wondered if they could dress as a Llama.  Bobby said that was, “OK.”  The youth agreed, “Yeah, I’m sure no one has PTSD over llamas.”

               During High school group a while back, Bobby switched the candle numbers on Rich’s treats.  This was a silly joke saying Rich is 65 not 56.  One youth said, “It doesn’t matter.  You guys are all pretty immortal to me. . . Anyone over 40 is.”  Old is old right?

               I enjoyed turning 50 this week.  Bobby and I took some time to rest in Eugene.  We also joined our kids and my parents in Portland for a meal.  I love the hugs, laughter and smiles we share.  It is a blessing to gather and be together.

               May you also enjoy your Birthdays large or small.  May gathering bring happy memories and good time.

Love and hugs,

 

Cristy

10/5/25

 

Dear Family,

 

               I felt so overwhelmed this week I poured Ranch into my cereal Thursday evening.  I am so glad Bobby was patient with me.  I left early from Middle school group and he didn’t bat an eye.  Having a full month ahead gave me “deer in the headlights” feels.  So, instead of just resting like we normally do on a Thursday he was OK with me finishing up our month end financials and creating a snack for the women’s retreat.  I am glad he didn’t pressure me to sit with him. 

               Tuesday night was fun even with the stress.  I enjoy the laughter we share as the youth try to figure out Bobby’s fill in the blanks.  He wanted us to S_ _ _ _ _ to l _ _ _ like Jesus (Phil 2:3-8, Eph 5:1-2).  His hint about the S word was, “This is one of the things we do here.  It starts with an S.  Someone shouted out, “Cookie.”  Well – that was hilariously random.  I’ll share the answer at the end.

               As he was trying to make a point about “Growing in Christ.” He said, “Imagine Rich, old as he is, dressed in baby clothes.”  Bobby was trying to talk about how as we mature it shows.  What made me laugh is the groups reaction to the thought and one person’s verbalizing it, “I don’t want to,” about using our imagination that way.

               The High School group also had some fun moments.  Bobby does all this work setting up chairs, Bibles, prayer cards, clip boards and pens.  Then a majority of the youth sit to the side on the ground.  They do make me laugh.  When Bobby mentioned, “God has given us grace – which in Greek is Charis like Charisma.”  They took this and ran – “He has given us Rizz!”  This is a buzz word for being cool and they got quite excited about that.

               Women’s retreat was special this year because I brought a friend.  The food is always amazing.  The speaker had great wisdom and wonderful insights about the Bible.  We enjoyed so much time in nature and felt blessed, loved and filled.  My friends favorite thing was a large swing that holds four people.  I loved sharing time with her and our other church ladies.

               May you also love spending time with those around you.  May our Lords nature fill your heart and mind with how truly amazing He is.

Love and hugs,

 

 

Cristy

The answer for the fill in the blanks was, “Strive to live like Jesus.”

9/28/25

 

Dear family,

 

Ah, the beginning of school, new starts are always fraught with the unknown.  I remember dreaming of going to the wrong class or forgetting to wear pants.  I am so glad I don’t have to go to school anymore.  Yet I am glad our children persist even in their college years.  Paying to learn is terrible but it’s tradition in our family so I am glad Seth and Adriel continue to strive towards a degree. 

Middle school youth are so fun.  During the message Bobby mentioned that a bad combination would be ice cream and ketchup.  One student became very excited, “I would eat that!”  Oh dear.  Another student laughed so hard soda came out of his nose.  Poor guy, his quote of the night was, “It burns!” 

The High schoolers also focused a bit on the soda.  On the way down to the youth room a student was saying how soda machines at school are  over $2.  The machine in the youth room is stuck at $.50.  She said, I think of that price and then say, “I’ll wait.”  One young man has a habit of spilling soda so he put the can far from his chair – between where Bobby sits and we do.  Another student followed in suit and this resulted in many people pretending they would kick the full can or tip it over in some way.  Bobby was chagrined.  “Why would you put it that far out?”  And the answer, “Because it will spill when I put it under my chair.”  Well, the inevitable happened, one did spill anyway.  Such is life.  Later . . . during the lesson . . . Bobby had to mention that, “All have sinned and come short of the glory of God like people who spill drinks on our carpet.“ The young man piped up, “Bobby I’ve been clean for a while!”

I delight in the antics of those I have the honor to spend time with.  Our youth are so fun.  May you also find joy in the people around you.  Love and hugs,

 

 

Cristy

 PS I am working on a new book.  This time with some of Adriel's drawings and some AI.  How fun.

9/21/25

 

Dear Family,

 

               Youth group has started up again!  Hooray!  Bobby is explaining how we can grow in our relationship with God and it’s great.  He also explained that being a baby Christian only lasts so long.  He had us imagine four chairs; the left one was smaller and the ones to the right got bigger as people matured.  He said, “We don’t want to stay in the baby chair our whole lives.”  One student moved a chair to the right which was funny.  He proved his desire to grow by hopping a seat.

               Two lovely middle school girls sat next to me, and I felt so special and chosen.  I do have relationships with them already but, that they came to my assigned seat was lovely.  I sit behind the rowdy boys so I can “flick their ears” if necessary.  LOL, don’t worry, I don’t actually do it, just threaten.

               High school group was also delightful.  I enjoyed the people so much and yet it was sad.  One of our families moved to another state so that was their last week.  We will miss them very much.

               I have to mention this because I think it’s hilarious. In an effort to comfort myself about being cheap I posted a picture of my cut finger on “Next Door”.  This is a place I felt anonymous and yet could get some advice (scorn if needed) if it was that serious.  I mean if all your neighbors tell you to see Urgent Care . . . Well, most people said I should be fine and gave over 40 posts of advice which cracks me up.  My finger has a following.

               Adriel and Seth remain a loving example of how great a parents we are.  LOL it’s true but funny how I had to make it about me right?  Anyway, Adriel convinced me not to use Temu (Yes, I spelled it wrong on purpose) because of child labor.  When I looked it up it wasn’t just child labor it was forced child labor that was a risk.  I can’t shop when someone shows that to me so blatantly.  I am sad, they have adorable, cute, items that are cat themed. ☹.  Above is a picture of our cat to soften the T blow.

               May you also find wisdom from the young, strength from our Lord and grace from His forgiveness flowing in and through us.

               Love and Hugs, Cristy 

9/14/25

 

Dear Family,

 

I enjoyed phone conversations the most this week.  One day I called Adriel and she didn’t answer.  I then called Seth because if I can get them both on the phone that can result in a fun conversation.  Seth was, “In the middle of something.”  When I alluded that a lot had happened since our last talk he just said, “Um, I don’t think I can do two things at once so, sorry, I’m going to go.”  Adriel then called back.  She was in the middle of planning a BBQ, working from home, talking to me and several other people.  She eventually did hang up after some pleasantries.  I had to laugh because both of my children are and have been so, so different all their lives.  How fun.

Tuesday night youth group had a BBQ for the middle schoolers and Wednesday night for the High School group.  It was amazing food, great fun and “The game of things”.  I love that game!  One question said, “Things that take too much time. . . “ Answers included, “Talking with Bobby, deportation, training a spouse,” I am NOT saying any of those are true but I am saying there was a lot of shock and laughter.  Another was, “Things I have too much of,” Answers ranged from, “Opinions, to clothes.”  We were supposed to guess who said clothes and a boy pointed to the girls, “One of their kind.” Was his guess.  Another was, too much, “Rizz”  When people guessed a certain person he said, “Not me (I didn’t write it), but I do (have too much rizz)”, Also, “boyfriends”, and “dresses in my closet” were some pretty funny answers.  I enjoy the laughter.

We had a special guest appearance and the toddlers antics were much appreciated by all.  Especially when Ronan took some lavender and ate it – just – raw.  This brought curiosity and several of us had to try it.  I did later from my own garden – how interesting lavender tastes pretty good, all by itself.

I asked for and received a very short hair cut.  I love it because it bugs me when hair gets into my face or eyes.  Bobby isn’t very happy – he did pray that it would grow fast.  Seth doesn’t care but I told him he could at least say, “Nice haircut.”  Bobby said, you can say, “You are still pretty.”  It’s funny how our outward appearance does affect others.  Care or not we can notice and be nice about it or mean.  I mostly don’t care about what it looks like.  My hair is going to be crazy no matter what kind of cut I have.

One incident did make me smile every time I remembered it.  Music day is once a year.  I remember being a host when Adriel was in band.  I was bringing band kids door to door to ask for cans, cash or check.  Many a youth was terrified to talk.  I enjoy being prepared so we had a check ready and taped to the inside of the door.  They rang the doorbell at 9:30 AM which felt quite early for a Saturday.  Yet, there they were in full band uniform.  Before they could say their not yet memorized talk I handed them the check and the response was fun, “Awesome!”  I still smile, thinking of all the times there was so much angst.  I can support the music program.  I believe it’s good for people to train their brains in that way.

May you also delight in supporting causes you believe in.  May you find joy in knowing you are loved, cared for and cherished by your creator.  Hugs, and love, Cristy

 

9/7/25

 Dear Family,

 

               I am so glad we had time to gather on Labor Day.  I enjoyed spending time with friends and our kids.  I enjoy time with those close to us.  Bobby and Costco made strawberry short cake and it was delicious.

               The rest to the week went quite well.  I enjoyed seeing Bobby when he came back from his trip to fish with his dad.  They didn’t keep any fish for us to eat but Bobby came home with beef.  That was fun.  Bobby made shepherds pie and it’s gone already.

               In the time I had without Bobby I have been plugging away at getting my best book so far into Shutterfly.  It’s a process because I made the text three colors in different parts so that is tedious but it’s coming along, and I am getting excited about it.

               Adriel mentioned she is happy, and I am glad for her.  She is moving into a new place, still has two jobs and one class to finish for college.  Her future looks bright.

               Seth mentioned he will continue to walk to church even when he gets his car back from the shop.  I guess a transmission is hard to fix because Harolds has had it over two months.  The walk to and from church is a pleasant one when it’s not raining.  Well see if he still wants to do that walk in the rain when he has a car.  Bobby doesn’t.

               May you find joy in knowing our Lord, wisdom in seeking His will and love for each person you encounter this week. Love and hugs, Cristy

9/1/25

 Dear Family,

Bobby left for a camping trip with some youth, and Rich Duval.  I feel blessed that I can hold down the fort and have evening dates with friends.  I so enjoy teaching someone to drive, going out to eat with another, helping her move, prayer group and having time to be with people I love.  Yes, I love Bobby and I’m glad when he is home.  But even when he is not home, my life is so full and wonderful.

I also enjoyed a peaceful evening to myself.  Puttering around the house, cleaning, enjoying the silence and having time to do whatever I want.  Ahhh, such a feeling of freedom.  I love that.

Adriel and Seth chatted with me Thursday for my lunch break and I enjoyed talking to them both so very, very much.

It was so good that Bobby came home safe and sound.  He had some fun camping stories to tell and that was nice.  This week we did go to the fair one day.  So many things to look at! So many shows!  The racing pigs were so cute I cried tears of joy.  When the announcer said they were racing baby dianosaurs I had to laugh.  The little girl next to me was incredulous, "There's no such thing as baby dinausoars!  Well, sheep in dino costumes was good fun as well.  (Pictured above).

The fire dancer/acrobatics of another show were so amazing!  The entire crowd was gasping, oohing and in awe.  Some people are great at their jobs.  I did imagine how they could loose their job though – if the trees catch fire on a toss, if a person let’s go accidentally of their partner and, yikes.  Anyway, as an older person who now sees many creative ways people loose their jobs that’s where my mind went.  Also – repetitive motion injuries.  His neck is going to feel that later (as she is spinning and only being held on by a strap on his neck).

Ahh, then the building with massage chairs, EMS units, food and makeup samples.  After three massage chairs didn’t make my cut (not digging into me deeply enough).  He said, “Well you need a new bed then.”  Bobby asked, as I was trying out a new bed, “How did you get over here?”  My over relaxed body said in bewilderment, “I don’t quite know.”  We enjoyed ourselves greatly 😊.  No need for rides, I was sore enough from being on my feet all day.

How fun to have excitement come to our doorstep.  May you also enjoy God’s people, critters and joy as he delivers divine appointments, OH YEAH, we saw so many people we know and it was super fun to catch up.  How delightful!  Also wearing our Rooted youth group shirts was a conversation topic which was fun.  Yay God!

Anyway, may you enjoy God’s timing, beauty and creativity in creation.  Much love, Cristy

8/25/25

 Dear Family

               Last week was pleasant. It feels like there isn’t much to write about, but God brought to mind several things.

               Our friend Adam preached a Sermon a while back that had Bobby featured in it.  The first illustration had me completely grossed out but by the end of the sermon I was crying so – that was neat.  The interesting thing is that although I feel I might have heard these stories – they were presented through Adam’s eyes, so they took on new profound meaning.  And that’s how it is when we read the Bible or hear it through sermon as well.  If you would also like to listen to the sermon it’s at https://branches.tv/messages?sapurl=LythY2FhL2xiL21zLyszMnBocWR6P2JyYW5kaW5nPXRydWUmZW1iZWQ9dHJ1ZSZyZWNlbnRSb3V0ZT1hcHAud2ViLWFwcC5saWJyYXJ5Lmxpc3QmcmVjZW50Um91dGVTbHVnPSUyQmZ0bjNoNGs=

(You will have to search for Adam Pinkston’s name and if you want to skip the music it’s about a half an hour in.)

               The youth group did go on a trip to get ice cream on Wednesday night.  I enjoyed our chats.  Watching people grow up is such an honor.  They start so small.  Then they are taller than I am, and I love that.  Sometimes they are silly and sometimes our talks are serious.  How fun to enjoy a deep conversation with someone you have known for years.

               Adriel and I enjoy talking on the phone.  She plans on moving soon so please pray for her wisdom as to where to move and with whom.  The destination has been iffy, but I think she may have found a friend of her roommate that will fit the bill – someone responsible.  Yay!

               Seth has almost run out of housework because he has been so diligent AND because not watering in the summer means less weeds.  The garden is manageable and that is an amazing blessing.  Last week he cleaned cobwebs off outside lights and did some weeding in the lawn.  I feel so blessed that he works hard and is helpful.

               I have felt motivated to add my latest book to the Shutterfly archives.  It’s an expensive way to get a book printed but because I want my books to be hard cover it’s worth it to me.  I don’t have any visions of grandeur, desire to travel the world selling my books or thoughts I might become famous any more.  The books did not sell themselves. Even so I do want a way to get them printed for gifts and I only have two of the latest book left.  I’m on page three and it’s pretty tedious.  Please pray with me that I stay motivated if God wants me to do this.

               May you also find strength in doing what you think He wants you to do.  May you enjoy His blessings, His love, His comfort and any AC you find.  Love and hugs, Cristy

              

              

8/17/25

 

Dear Family,

 

               Color wars was the highlight this week.  Bobby planned for everyone to have white shirts and this made everyone want to participate more.  That is the first time I have received any color at these events.  Usually, I stay clear and feel respected.  This time I had some hugs and felt loved.  Interesting.  Either way, we have new comers who are curious what kind of church does a color extravaganza and that is fun.

               Seth continues to help with the house, this week he washed the outside windows.  I really appreciate the help.

               Bobby has been home and I have enjoyed his presence immensely.  We did have a date night this week and it’s fun to just be together.  I enjoy that he cooks and love that he makes our house smell good. 

               Adriel made it home safe from her second week of camp and I am glad for that.  She is constantly on the go but sounded healthy and tired.

               I am excited for the future and glad for the past.  May you have memories to warm your heart and plans to give you hope.  Much love, Cristy

8/10/25

 

Dear family,

 

               The latest person I have enjoyed watching learn to drive is four years old.  She was backing out of spaces, possibly running snakes over and enjoying the good life.  It’s funny to see a youngster in a toy car.  There are many similar concepts to learn; what way does the vehicle move when backing up and turning the wheel, not running grandma over, driving while turned backwards.  (Well, maybe not that last one.)  I enjoy my adopted family and was so glad when they decided we don’t really need candles to be on the cake for blowing out.  Candles on cake was a pretty yucky tradition if you have Covid in your thought processes.

               Either way I am so glad for my church family.  You are my friends and I am glad to enjoy your company while Bobby takes yet another trip.  He was home for a couple days.  There was enough time for water balloon volleyball.  There is more skill than you would ever guess for throwing a water balloon out of a beach towel.  It’s a skill that we probably won’t have to use . . . ever. . . so no one practices during the year.  I enjoy watching and the kids have fun every time.  We have a great group of lovely people.  Each one is a blessing to see when we do have youth group. 

               Seth continues to do beautiful landscaping and I appreciate his efforts so much.  Our yard is manageable this year, yeah!!  Since Seth has done so much work I haven’t cried once because the yard was overwhelming.  Seth even swept our sidewalk.  It’s so beautiful!  I then had time to take my wheel barrel and clean up two or three other blocks on Wallace that were trashy.  I bicycle every day and want to live in a clean neighborhood.  During that task I saw a lovely lady from church and had several amazing interactions with neighbors.  I felt so loved, blessed and happy to live exactly where I live.  Seth’s efforts made my Saturday morning amazing.

               Adriel has embarked on a journey of being a camp counselor for a couple of weeks.  Please pray with me for her to have good health, good times and energy for the tasks she has to do.  I don’t know what hours she is there but I am guessing she is tired.  She did have an amazing week last week and has a new appreciation for caregiving and camp in general.

               Bobby came home early from his 100 mile hike for an entirely different reason than past hikes.  No tent malfunctions, fire, or extreme mosquitoes.  This time they simply hiked faster than expected. How fun.  Bobby was home just in time to help Seth spread gravel.  He was so excited about that. 😉.

               May you enjoy God’s gifts, know how loved you are and delight in the sun, rain, stars and beauty that we are surrounded with.

 

Love and hugs, Cristy