12/28/25

 

Dear Family,

 

               Adriel seemed upset when she looked at our manger scene on the 20^th.  “Why is Jesus in the manger?”  Half of the people understood why this was so wrong.  The other half were a bit confused until we explained that tradition.  “He wasn’t born yet.”  It was fun for Adriel to also admit that we don’t know the real birthdate exactly anyway.  I did have to smile about all the confusion.

               During dinner, Bobby’s sister seemed to be choking a little.  She whispered to Bobby, “Hit me.”  Bobby gladly came over and thumped her a couple of times.  Finally, she was able to swallow better.  Bobby said, “It’s not often I get to hit my sister.”

               Bobby and I celebrated Christmas day with the Duval family.  I requested ahead of time to take photos of individual families because I have been praying for them with pictures from before Sam was born, 17 years ago.  They complied and now I have shiny new pictures to use.  How fun that one family wanted to recreate the old picture, closed eyes and all.  That’s why I have posted the Kuykendall photo.  They have such a fun spirit in them.

               Seth stayed home with a cough and Adriel enjoyed working at the Skate shop.  She said it had the, “Perfect Christmas vibes, Very mellow.”  They grilled steak, hotdogs and burgers.  Yum!

               Work on Friday was nice and went quickly.  I truly enjoyed contemplating Jesus birth this year with friends during our break time.  We brought to the table thoughts like, “Did you know the shepherds were probably not men, they were teen boys or even younger.  Can you imagine the excitement they brought to the manger?”  “I feel so sorry for Mary, her mom wasn’t there during the birth.  I was really glad my mom was present.”  (One person said Mary’s mother was dead – the catholic tradition.)  I was thinking they had a broken relationship.  Either way, how sad that the Bible doesn’t mention any grandparent relationship between Jesus and Mary or Joseph’s parents.  Also. some celebrate the Solstice as the day the wise men visited and this was the first time non-Jewish people were introduced to the Christ Child.  Such wonder and excitement Mary must have felt.  Such mixed emotions as they were turned away for no room in the inn. 

I remember while checking into the hospital leaning over a bit and someone said, “Get her off the carpet.”  Poor Mary – the Innkeepers might have only been thinking of the mess she was going to make.  Did she have a Dr. or a midwife?  No mention – but she did have God and the knowledge that Jesus wasn’t just going to thrive as a baby – he was going to rule the world as an adult.  I might not have brought Adriel to the emergency room for her first cold if I knew she was destined to grow up queen. 

               So many of our own child bearing stories weave into the day Jesus was born.  We consider the depth of first time parenthood and feel with and for Mary.  Oh, what a hard time.  May you also weave your stories in with His.  May you find joy as you consider God’s hand in your life through Christ and may you rejoice that He did it!  Our Lord came to earth.  Wow,

 

 

Love and hugs, Cristy

              

Merry Christmas!!

 

Hello!                                                                                                      12/25

 

I’ll try not only to update you about our year but to share the funny parts of our lives in this Christmas letter.

Seth continues to work as a custodian and do school full time.  Adriel has two jobs although the law office job has picked up to full time and the Commonwealth skateboard shop has less hours.  Bobby continues to work as a youth pastor.  We have been at West Hills for over 18 years.  I enjoy working for the Employment department very much and volunteering with our church and the Union Gospel Mission thrift store.

And now, on to the entertainment:

Several things have been endearing with Seth.  I do have a perpetual popcorn bowl that I like to keep full.  One day Seth texted with, “I think I ruined the popcorn.”  This interested me and he responded that he had added butter.  I immediately thought of how popcorn sometimes melts when you pour butter on it and assured him, he was fine.  I just thought it was sweet of him to be concerned.

   Another incident was his concern about fraud on his card with an Amazon purchase.  “Mom, did you use my card on Amazon yesterday?”  I did not, so I thought he should report the fraud.  Later that day, “False alarm – it was a return.”  There are so many firsts in life.  It’s interesting to be part of Seth’s as he is a young adult. 

One of our former youths made my day by asking if I liked his new tattoo and sending a picture of something quite hideous.  I hedged and was at work, so I didn’t say yay or nay.  I did ask clarifying questions.  Given enough time, I was happily surprised with, “APRIL FOOLSSSSSSSSS.  I didn’t actually get that tattoo.”  I had a great laugh and shared the story with coworkers who were also quite appreciative.  Ahhh – to laugh.

   I knew Seth wouldn’t appreciate a story, so when I got home, I bared my ankle and asked if he liked my tattoo.  When he looked and said, “I can’t see it,” I said, “It’s very tiny.”  As he was looking closer, I whispered, “April fools.  I love you.”  I got a smile out of him, and that was super fun. 

   Seth helped so much to make our yard beautiful this summer.  I appreciated his efforts immensely.  Our yard is manageable this year, yeah!!  Since Seth put hours into the yard I haven’t cried once because it was overwhelming.  Seth even swept our sidewalk.  It was so beautiful!  I then had time to take my wheel barrel and clean up two or three other blocks on Wallace that were trashy.  I bicycle every day and want to live in a clean neighborhood.  During that task I saw a lovely lady from church and had several amazing interactions with neighbors.  I felt so loved, blessed and happy to live exactly where I live. 

   Adriel was a camp counselor for a couple of weeks.  She was a one on one (or helped two at a time).  She had some wonderful weeks and has a new appreciation for caregiving and camp in general.

   Bobby came home early from his 100 mile hike this summer for an entirely different reason than past hikes.  No tent malfunctions, fire, or extreme mosquitoes.  This time they simply hiked faster than expected. How fun.  Bobby was home just in time to help Seth spread gravel.  He was so excited about that. 😉.

    I asked for and received a very short hair cut in the summer.  I love it because it bugs me when hair gets into my face or eyes.  Bobby wasn’t very happy – he did pray that it would grow fast.  Seth doesn’t care but I told him he could at least say, “Nice haircut.”  Bobby said, “You can say, ‘You are still pretty.’”  It’s funny how our outward appearance does affect others.  Care or not we can notice and be nice about it or mean.  I mostly don’t care about what it looks like.  My hair is going to be crazy no matter what kind of cut I have.

I had a fun moment with Seth.  My friend had texted saying she wanted to pick me up early for a woman’s retreat trip.  I mentioned that I was coming home and expected to leave in half an hour BUT if she wanted to help unload groceries, I would love her company.  She said she was coming right over.  When I got home, I asked Seth to help unload groceries and he was in the middle of something, as usual.  I mentioned it was OK; my friend was coming over to help.  He untangled himself from his computer work and was beginning to help when my friend came in.  Seth was curious.  “Did she come over just to help unpack groceries?”  I said, “Yes” and he was a bit confused.  Then I said, “Nah, you can take over.” And he did.  It was fun to see him pondering the situation. 

I am so glad that I was evaluated for allergies this year.  It was a much better prognosis than being allergic to Bobby or our cat.  I am more allergic to dust mites than anything else.  Cats – a little.  Now we can manage my allergies quite easily – since we know what to do.  Yay!!  I think the allergist found me amusing.  I told him that if I was allergic to cats I must be allergic to dogs as well because I don’t want a dog.  He said, “That’s not how it works.”  Drat.

I commented on how cool Adriel’s pants were and she mentioned that she had sewn the part I liked on.  How cool is that?!! Adriel and I enjoyed sewing projects when she was a child – we didn’t ever follow a pattern – we just had fun with extra cloth and made things.  We have a picture of little Seth hugging something she made for him.  I really love that Adriel is continuing the tradition!  I even felt inspired to alter a Rooted sweatshirt.  It turned out well.  The sleeves have thumb holes and are thinner now.  I love my very old, newly remodeled sweatshirt.  It’s not just cool, it’s better than new to me.  I’m thankful for Adriel’s inspiration.

All this fun and silliness brings me to the most important point.  We are free because of others sacrifice.  We are free to live in peace because soldiers have fought for this freedom.  Bobby is free to be a pastor because Jesus gave his life.  We are free to not sin because Jesus’ death made it possible.  Such gratefulness wells in my heart when I share our stories.  Thank you for reading them.  Thank you for caring 😊.

Love and hugs,

 

 

 

 

Cristy VanKleek

cvankleek@yahoo.com

and my Monday blog is https://vankleekblessings.blogspot.com/ )

 

12/21/25

 

Dear family,

 

               Caroling can be fun.  I enjoyed singing with the Middle Schoolers last Tuesday and the High schoolers last Wednesday.  We went to pre-planned houses.  Bobby does all the work getting times and places lined up on lists for two groups to go out to.  I enjoy his organization and the delight in the people we visit.  Although it really doesn’t matter if we are on tune or not some youth were not OK with one visit.  Some were in one key and others were in another.  Oh the horror.  So one person got a pitch pipe on their phone but didn’t know what pitch we should sing to.  It was an interesting conundrum.  I am glad they do care. 

               Bobby and I did enjoy a date last Saturday.  I am glad we talked about our future and that the future is bright.  We will have a fun anniversary trip in May.  Thirty years of marriage is a big deal.

               Although I normally don’t talk about work I do have to include several funny instances.  I was leaving a message to a claimant asking them to contact us by four means to fix their address.  It’s a long message with good information.  In the middle of doing this someone started rolling a cart behind me.  This startled me so much that I made a very loud scared voice as I was leaving the message.  I completed the message fine with an, “Sorry, my coworker scared me.”  Yet the office was in a fit of giggles and that is worth mentioning.

               While I am at it there is another fun mention.  I was talking with a co-worker about how the sun is out (even though it was a cloudy day).  She is originally from Arizona and said, “That . . is . . not . . the sun.”

               Bobby had us try out my ring light before the family came over (this years Christmas family pictures will have good lighting by golly!).

He was so impressed he bought one for the youth group.  How fun to have a photo op for the party.  Not only that the gift exchange, cookie decorating, games and random prizes were much appreciated.  Yay!  I loved seeing some fun interactions, happy smiles and good times.  I’ll have to say it, the food was fantastic as well.

               Adriel and Seth both had finals so not much talk last week.  This week they were on break so, YAY!  More time to concentrate on family for the holidays.  We had a lovely celebration this Saturday.  We enjoy a wonderful meal with hominy from dad, rolls from mom and cookies, cake and candy included.  Bobby cooked ham, scalloped potatoes, salad and lots of asparagus with bacon.  Sooo delicious!  I am very glad we enjoy getting together.  It is fun to get family pictures.

               Seth and Caren did have a silly incident.  She decided to pick a fight with him since he is a bit under the weather with a cold.  She said she can take him on and was egging him on enough that he said, “You think you can take me on?”  He stood up and said, “Stand up then.”  This was met with a bunch of “Ohhhh’s” from us and general laughter.  Caren had to mention how much she loves Seth’s dry sense of humor.  Good times.

               May you also delight in your Christmas interactions.  May your time with friends or family fill your heart full to the brim.  May you find time to focus on Jesus’ birth and the fact that poor Mary was rejoicing in circumstances when she could have been in a confused state of hardship.  Traveling, on a donkey, while pregnant without your mom around.  Harsh.  I really enjoyed my mother around for both pregnancies.  Anyway, may you be glad that God loves us so much.

               Love and hugs,

 PS the picture is of Caren and I both 50 years old this year.  Go us!!

12/7/25

 

Dear Family,

 

               The business of this season can be overwhelming.  I want to do so much!!  I’m sure you also have opportunities to be overwhelmed.  I’m so glad I also can say, “No.” It may feel impossible to keep up but we can also let go and be at peace.  Decorating was fun – especially the youth room.  We had so many extra lights.  Both of our parents gave us a lot of lights.  I even had enough to share with Adriel.  She and her roommate were delighted with the festive feeling.  I really enjoyed bringing her lights and some Chili Verde that Bobby made.  She is such a delightful person, and I enjoy her company very much. 

I commented on how cool Adriel’s pants were and she mentioned that she had sewn the part I liked on.  How cool is that?!! Adriel and I did enjoy sewing projects when she was a child – we didn’t really follow a pattern – we just had fun with extra cloth and made things.  We have a picture of little Seth hugging a something she made for him.  I really love that Adriel is continuing the tradition!  I even felt inspired to alter a Rooted sweatshirt.  It turned out well.  The sleeves have thumb holes and are thinner now.  I love my very old, newly remodeled sweatshirt.  It’s not just cool, it’s better than new to me.  I’m thankful for Adriel’s inspiration.

               Adriel also asked me for pictures of Uncle Cecils house.  She was trying to describe this one-day visit with someone who had a hobby of African safaris.  He had more museum than house.  It was quite amazing.  I sent her several pictures including the one above.  This is where we obtained Bruce the Rhino from.

               Middle school group was delightful as usual.  I did enjoy it when Bobby asked the youth to read.  Someone said, “I have the passage.”  After a pause Bobby said, “Why don’t you read it?”  The person said, “I don’t like reading.” 

               Bobby was telling the middle schoolers that our next event (singing carols) would bring joy to the elders of the church.  Someone had to tease a girl named Joy.  “Here is Joy, we present you to the elders.”  He, he, he.

               The high School group was energetic and fun.  They were trying to fill in the blanks but one was a little late to the table.  Bobby had moved from, “Christmas is busy with . . . Shopping, P_ _ _ _ _ _ _ (Presents), F _ _ _.  He was trying to give a hint for the last one.  “What is the best Christmas food?”  Someone shouted out, “Friends!”  That was a fill in the blank for something Christmas is busy with – the timing though – well – Friends are not good for eating. 

               I enjoy laughing so much.  May you delight with me in our young people and in life in general.  Thank you for reading as I record the fun things God is doing in and around our world.  Love and hugs,

 

 

 

Cristy

Thanksgiving blessings

 Dear Family,

              Sometimes Bible reading can be quite entertaining.  Psalm 22 is anything but boring when someone reads, 22:9, “Yet you brought me out of the womb; you made me trust in you, even at my mother’s boobies.”  This brought much delight and laughter.  Breast has never been interpreted so fun.

Any prayer request that starts with, “That my girlfriend” – might be an announcement.  Bobby was intrigued – “This is the first I have heard of your girlfriend! Is she nice? (Yes), does she live near? (Yes), Is she a Christian? (Yes).  Well, OK then.”  We may have moved on but having a girlfriend was mentioned several times.  This person’s sister and cousin were both rolling their eyes.  “I think that prayer request was all about letting everyone know he has a girlfriend.”  How daring 😉.  How funny.  And that was just last weeks Sunday School.

This last week Bobby took time off to rest from some hectic times.  He also prepared to drive us to the Seattle area and back for Thanksgiving festivities with my parents, sister, Uncle and a new addition I hope to see often.  Doug’s brother Jimmy is such a sweet, gentle and kind person. 

We had a great time and laughed so many times and our hearts were filled.  Some things I recall.  “There’s a lazy Susan over there.” “Poor Susan, she got a bad wrap.”  There is a drawing game that we enjoy playing together.  We delight when a flamingo turns into a dancer or a tuxedo turns into a broken shoulder.  It’s fun to see how drawings and guesses can be so wrong. 

Enjoying my parent’s company is always a blessing.  They hang on our every word and are so loving.  Mom also makes amazing turkey, stuffing and cranberry Jello.  Everyone contributed something and I enjoyed eating some leftovers the next day.

Bobby drove us safely home and I it’s great to have time to not only write this but decorate and prepare for the holidays.  We had Sunday school again and it was fun to keep reading Psalms.  Psalm 45:17 started out a little rough when someone read, “I will perpetrate” instead of, “"I will perpetuate your memory through all generations; therefore the nations will praise you forever and ever".  Bobby had to correct them – “There’s a big difference.”

May you also decide to share God’s word through those around you and that come behind you.  (Instead of perpetuating anything: intend to commit or carry out a harmful, illegal, or immoral act.) Warmly,

 

Cristy

              

I saw a rat under the desk, and we made eye contact. 11/23/25

When it moved 1/8^th of an inch I jumped so fast, I hit Bobby.  He said, “Wahhh?” I opened my eyes and realized I had been dreaming.  I apologized, “Sorry, I’m in bed, there is no rat, that was a very realistic dream.”  My first jump scare dream at the age of 50!  Have you had any dreams like that?

               I truly enjoyed this week!  Bobby made youth group a Friendsgiving event.  Everyone brought interesting toppings for pancakes, and we enjoyed them so much.  I learned that caramel mixed with peanut butter on top of pancakes tastes like heaven in my mouth.  Sooo amazing!  I also enjoyed it when my table of middle schoolers wanted to hold hands for prayer.  I felt so at home and loved in that moment.

               I delighted in showing someone a silly video called, “Road work ahead, I sure hope it does!” and tried to share the joy with Adriel.  She said it was funny that this was my first sight as this was old.  Well then, a teen shared a man playing trombone while his son played the oven as a drum.  That cracked me up.  I think Adriel liked it as well.

               The high schoolers were also enjoyable.  I loved coloring with them, chatting and trying peanut butter with chocolate syrup.  It’s pretty good.  I enjoyed watching three youth chase each other as they played keep away from a phone and simply enjoyed a fun night with games, chatting and amazing food.

               My dad’s health is a concern.  His next surgery to get water off the brain will be for next month.  Thank you for your continued prayer about this.

               Babies are still coming into the world.  I felt blessed to be included and invited to a baby shower.  How sweet little ones are and how blessed we are to welcome them with love and gifts. 

               The picture is Salem on my wonderful commute.  I get to see the sun rise most mornings these days.  It’s quite lovely.

               May you find strength in knowing our Lord.  May you find peace and joy in each person you meet today and the whole week. 

 

Much love, Cristy

Allergies 11/16/25

 Dear Family,

 

I am so glad that I was evaluated for allergies this week.  It’s a much better prognosis BUT a little embarrassing.  I am more allergic to dust mites than anything else.  Cats – a little.  Now we can act accordingly and figure out ways to combat microscopic creatures.  Yuck! We ordered two things and will wash sheets more often.  Yay God, there are practical steps to take.  It’s also very good that I am not allergic to Bobby.

I think the allergist found me amusing.  I told him that if I was allergic to cats I have to be allergic to dogs as well because I don’t want a dog.  He said, “That’s not how it works.”  Drat.  The numbers on the left are what I am allergic to.

I thoroughly enjoyed spending time with my friend on Veterans Day.  She loves free stuff and mapped out the town.  I enjoyed listening to her stories and am so glad people all said, “Thank you for your service,” to her.  That was very cool.

Tuesday night still included middle school group.  I enjoy our youth so it was fun to see them.  Also, there were more girls than boys again, so Bobby had me order pizza.  How fun.  Yay for participation.

Bobby was talking about keeping our “Thanks Tank Full” and brought in how God is faithful to us.  He also made an analogy with a picture of a bride and groom.  The fill in the blank was.  Faithfulness is a _ _ _ deal. . .  it’s seen in

c _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _.  His hint was, “What do brides and grooms do?”  Someone had to say, “Kiss”.  The answer was right, but does not start with a C.  I’ll tell you at the bottom.

The high school group was also very fun.  Bobby was letting people know that God gives us help.  For some reason he got to a part where he said, “If you are racing to Sunday school.”  I had to smile when two teens who might happen to race cars, fist bumped with a knowing smile.  Bobby is very against racing in cars, just in case you were wondering.

Also we have a “Friendsgiving” event coming up where we will eat pancakes and everyone can bring an interesting topping.  Bobby did have to say they can’t bring possum.  “No, no possum.”  Things you never guess you will have to make rules about.

Adriel has been very caring when it came to the allergist appointment.  She is a wonderful listener and shows her heart when she asks open ended and clarifying questions.  I am loved and it shows.

Seth let me borrow his car while mine was in the shop.  I appreciated that on grocery runs especially.  I am glad he eats food I don’t appreciate enough.  Bobby is a wonderful cook, I just don’t like meat as much as Seth and Bobby do.

May you appreciate the people you are close to.  May you find good things to say to and about them.

 

Much love, Cristy

And the answers are, “Big” deal, and “commitment.”

 

11/9/25

 

Dear Family,

 

               Finally, a weekend when I am home!  It can be exhausting taking trips even if they are celebrations, a Women’s retreat or pastors retreat.  My soul can only manage so much.  I really enjoy being home and tending to things that call me.  Replanting flowers isn’t fun when I am doing it BUT this creates an opportunity to share with neighbors or friends because these bulbs not only grow in our habitat, they flourish.  How fun in the spring or summer when they happily show themselves to be alive yet again.  Delayed gratification really does have its place.

               It was also enjoyable to gather for youth group.  Bobby purposefully had five people read a verse that repeated itself.  Psalm 107:1, 8, 15, 21 and 31 all sound the same.  This created consternation with the middle school group.  “Hey, they are reading my verse!” One person even said, “Swiper, no swiping,” said another.  (A cute reference to Dora the explorer.)  IE – don’t read my verse! It is for me to read.  It was fun when Bobby mentioned that everyone had the right verse – they all just reinforced his point.

               One fill in the blank triggered my mind to think of someone who always wants to pray for, “Everything” on Sunday morning.  This person also mentions they don’t like Bobby’s fill in the blanks.  Sometimes they say, “Stupid word.”  When Bobby’s fill in the blank was “Everything” that person came to mind.  I am so glad they came to youth group Wednesday night.  They seemed a bit confused by my attention, but two other Sunday School attenders got it – Ohhh “Everything” that is so and so’s word.

               Bobby did ask the crowd what languages the Bible was written in.  I thought it was funny when someone mentioned, Hebrew, Greek and Aromatic.

               Please do pray for me as I am miserable.  I made an appointment last week with an allergist for Friday the 14th.  They asked me to stop taking antihistamines 5 to 7 days before the appointment so that if they evaluate me -  my results would show up.  I chose to stop taking them at once and am experiencing puffy, itchy, burning eye lids that swell really bad in the morning.  I took them again for a couple of days but know that the next days are not going to be fun.  It’s not dangerous but I am miserable.  Please pray the office decides to evaluate me during that appointment.  I know I am allergic to something but don’t know if it’s the cat, Bobby or something else.

               Thank you for your love and concern.  Thank you for your prayers.  Love and hugs,

 

Cristy

So much going on! 11/3/25

 

Dear family,

               I haven’t mentioned our kids lately and must apologize.  I had a funny moment with Seth last week when I was unloading groceries.  My friend had texted saying she wanted to pick me up early for our woman’s retreat trip.  I mentioned that I was coming home and expected to leave in a half an hour BUT if she wanted to help unload groceries, I would love her company.  She said she was coming right over.  When I got home, I asked Seth to help unload groceries and he was in the middle of something, as usual.  I mentioned it was OK, my friend was coming over to help.  He untangled himself from his computer work and was beginning to help when my friend came in.  Seth was curious.  “Did she come over just to help unpack groceries?”  I said, “Yes” and he was a bit confused.  Then I said, “Nah, you can take over.” And he did.  It was fun to see him pondering the situation. 

               Adriel went up to the Seattle area twice last week to help my sister unpack.  I was jealous of this but had other plans.  I do love my sister and nieces and nephews.  I am very grateful Adriel not only represents our family well but motivates the younger girls to be helpful and cooperative.  Moving is so stressful.  I think I would be in the way – but Adriel – she brings joy wherever she goes.

               Middle school youth group was very fun.  During game time Bobby had some fake vampire teeth.  He had one student read a tongue twister while another tried to guess what they were saying.  The teeth made the words come out funny and it was great seeing them laugh at themselves.

               Our church encountered fire this week and everyone is glad this happened during the day when the blaze was discovered within three minutes of the start.  A light bulb decided to become a flame and that was a bit on the crazy side.  Everyone was safe and that was a blessing for sure.

               Wednesday night activities for the entire church were cancelled so we didn’t have High School group.  This was sad but Bobby’s back was hurting, and we wanted to avoid confusion.  It’s also a blessing that Bobby’s tweaked back is a muscle issue and not a disk one.  Yay!  He seems to be on the mend, please pray for him to get even better.

               Our church candy fest was full of fun.  I enjoy the costumes, candy and excitement when little people throw or toss a stuffed pumpkin into a bowl.  People in general can be delightful.  Giving people candy, even more so.

               May you also enjoy time with others and all you encounter.  Love and hugs, Cristy

              

10/26/25 NAB retreat

 

Dear Family,

 

               I must admit, my favorite blessing this week made me wiggle with joy at first but then cringe a bit as I became saturated.  McDonalds Monopoly is happening and I still have about 10 free items to claim (from using digital entries).  Yet, I will have to admit, there is too much of a good thing even from my favorite restaurant.  I can only eat so many free apple-pie pastries before I’m done.

               Ahhhhh, but youth group always has so many fun instances of silliness and learning about God in the best ways. Several new people came, and I loved that during lesson time one young person was eager for their friend to hear the gospel message. Bobby asked, “What is a reason we can rejoice?”  Their answer was, “We can rejoice that being saved only means you have to believe.”  There it is folks, grace. Our salvation is through God’s grace.  Bobby did take that and run with the explanation of Jesus dying for our sins.  Yay!!

               Bobby then talked about how happiness is external – about something you just got (like my free McDonalds food) and joy is internal.  Joy lasts.  His illustration was, “How do you think Rich would feel if I gave him a new truck?”  Rich said, “Uhhh, awkward.”  I piped in, “Because he would be wondering what your wife thought of this purchase.”  I was not shy about my disapproval.  Bobby’s retort, “You are ruining my example.”  I think our youth did understand what he was talking about though.  He went on to say that if the new truck was scratched the joy might be lost. 

               The illustration went over much better during High School group when Bobby mentioned, “What if I was to buy Everest a new truck.”  Now that person, he lit up with evidence that this action would give him much happiness.  It was fun to watch.

               Sometimes Bobby’s fill in the blanks are such big college words people say, “I don’t like that word,” or, “Stupid word!”  Bobby countered with, “I’m rejoicing in your presence – even though you are wrong.”  I am glad we have fun with the youth.  They are a blast to be around.

               This weekend was the Seaside pastors retreat.  Rainy thought it was we praised God in heartfelt worship, soaked in God’s word and even had some fun private aerobics early in the morning.  Also, the picture above was a lovely time with the pastors of West Hills.

               During the conference I enjoyed hearing how other churches are doing, what God is doing in their places of ministry, AND what God can do with missions and NAB.  God is truly at work, and I am excited to be part of it. Also, it was fun to play Azul with friends.  They loved the game and so did I.

               May you find that each adventure God gives you is a blessing.  May your life reflect how much God loves you.  May you enjoy life, be a giving person and find strength in knowing you are loved quite dearly.

 

Hugs, Cristy

10/19/25

 

Dear family,

 

Being over the hill isn’t that bad at all.  I can still ride my bicycle over hills, and that is a big deal to me.  When I lose that ability, I will be sad.  For now, I feel blessed.  I am very glad for that mode of transportation.  It saves us $100 of gas a month, and who knows, in parking.  I also enjoy the commute.  I am thrilled to see the changing weather and the beautiful town we live in.

Middle school group had four new faces.  It was fun to greet a Corban student while trying to figure out her fit.  I thought I got it when I said, “You are not a middle schooler, you are a parent!”  Nope, someone figuring out if helping out would be a good fit.  Ohhhh, how fun.  We also had three wiggly boys.  They were super disruptive but so endearing as well.  Bobby’s estimation of the night: “That was fun.”

Bobby mentioned a story during the lesson about being wanted.  God chooses us.  Bobby remembered a time when he was playing football with a new group of people on Thanksgiving Day.  They chose teams like middle school, and he was picked last because he was older and smaller.  That brought back some feelings.  The next year, though, he was picked first (which was fun for him).  The man who picked him said, “I just picked you because I don’t want to ever be tackled by you again.”  This brought some comments.  “That is real,” which also meant, “I don’t want to ever get tackled by you either.”  Some of our students are smaller, but one thing they do know.  Bobby has force, energy, and strength, and that is just his personality!

One more interaction made me smile.  One person asked another, “Why don’t you like your face getting wet?”  The answer was said firmly stated as the obvious.  “Autism.”  And that makes moms of people with Autism smile.  Yes, that would do it.  Sensory issues are a thing.

High school group also has some fun times.  When Bobby asked us to write down three characteristics of our personality, he didn’t expect to hear this one from one of our older males, “I start listening to Christmas music in September.”  This was hard for Bobby to comprehend.

There was a point when Bobby couldn’t find his phone.  He looked around, and I asked if he wanted me to call him.  Rich mentioned it didn’t matter since it was on silent.  Lo and behold, it was right next to Rich.  The thief, who was chuckling. 

I enjoy shenanigans.  I love laughing.  May you also enjoy when people give you that interesting kind of attention, and may your joy be complete when your life is still OK, especially since it will not matter in five years. 

Much love, Cristy

And that picture?  Well I found a friend that wants plants so instead of having to put them free on the sidewalk she gladly took them.  Yay!

I am now 50 years old

 

Dear Family,

                Celebrating is so much fun.  I am glad for time to enjoy family when my Birthday came around this year.  Thank you also friends, for your birthday wishes. You are so kind 😊.

               Youth group continues to be fun.  During lesson time, when a leader asked, “Do we need to be saved just once?”  A teen had to tell his story.  He’s been saved six times (prayed the prayer) and baptized four times (once professionally).  This young man brought up that he’s baptized himself the other three.

               I had to crack up when the kids pushed Bobby several times with,  “Are we your favorite youth group?”  Finally, he said, “Yeah, sure, whatever.”  Then had to mention that one of the kids has now turned 40 from our first youth group.  We have a lifetime relationship with some people.  We can’t say anyone is our favorite really.  But it was funny when the youth said, “Yes!”

               When Bobby said, “Tell me something that is better when old. We had answers varying from movies (better than the remake), house “It has memories”, coins, and Bobby’s favorite was, “Rich”.  We didn’t know him when he was younger but we do know we like Rich now – especially in his Ripe old age, LOL.

               When Bobby mentioned our youth can volunteer during the church Candy Fest the youth had questions especially regarding “No scary Costumes”.  One person wondered if they could dress as a Llama.  Bobby said that was, “OK.”  The youth agreed, “Yeah, I’m sure no one has PTSD over llamas.”

               During High school group a while back, Bobby switched the candle numbers on Rich’s treats.  This was a silly joke saying Rich is 65 not 56.  One youth said, “It doesn’t matter.  You guys are all pretty immortal to me. . . Anyone over 40 is.”  Old is old right?

               I enjoyed turning 50 this week.  Bobby and I took some time to rest in Eugene.  We also joined our kids and my parents in Portland for a meal.  I love the hugs, laughter and smiles we share.  It is a blessing to gather and be together.

               May you also enjoy your Birthdays large or small.  May gathering bring happy memories and good time.

Love and hugs,

 

Cristy

10/5/25

 

Dear Family,

 

               I felt so overwhelmed this week I poured Ranch into my cereal Thursday evening.  I am so glad Bobby was patient with me.  I left early from Middle school group and he didn’t bat an eye.  Having a full month ahead gave me “deer in the headlights” feels.  So, instead of just resting like we normally do on a Thursday he was OK with me finishing up our month end financials and creating a snack for the women’s retreat.  I am glad he didn’t pressure me to sit with him. 

               Tuesday night was fun even with the stress.  I enjoy the laughter we share as the youth try to figure out Bobby’s fill in the blanks.  He wanted us to S_ _ _ _ _ to l _ _ _ like Jesus (Phil 2:3-8, Eph 5:1-2).  His hint about the S word was, “This is one of the things we do here.  It starts with an S.  Someone shouted out, “Cookie.”  Well – that was hilariously random.  I’ll share the answer at the end.

               As he was trying to make a point about “Growing in Christ.” He said, “Imagine Rich, old as he is, dressed in baby clothes.”  Bobby was trying to talk about how as we mature it shows.  What made me laugh is the groups reaction to the thought and one person’s verbalizing it, “I don’t want to,” about using our imagination that way.

               The High School group also had some fun moments.  Bobby does all this work setting up chairs, Bibles, prayer cards, clip boards and pens.  Then a majority of the youth sit to the side on the ground.  They do make me laugh.  When Bobby mentioned, “God has given us grace – which in Greek is Charis like Charisma.”  They took this and ran – “He has given us Rizz!”  This is a buzz word for being cool and they got quite excited about that.

               Women’s retreat was special this year because I brought a friend.  The food is always amazing.  The speaker had great wisdom and wonderful insights about the Bible.  We enjoyed so much time in nature and felt blessed, loved and filled.  My friends favorite thing was a large swing that holds four people.  I loved sharing time with her and our other church ladies.

               May you also love spending time with those around you.  May our Lords nature fill your heart and mind with how truly amazing He is.

Love and hugs,

 

 

Cristy

The answer for the fill in the blanks was, “Strive to live like Jesus.”

9/28/25

 

Dear family,

 

Ah, the beginning of school, new starts are always fraught with the unknown.  I remember dreaming of going to the wrong class or forgetting to wear pants.  I am so glad I don’t have to go to school anymore.  Yet I am glad our children persist even in their college years.  Paying to learn is terrible but it’s tradition in our family so I am glad Seth and Adriel continue to strive towards a degree. 

Middle school youth are so fun.  During the message Bobby mentioned that a bad combination would be ice cream and ketchup.  One student became very excited, “I would eat that!”  Oh dear.  Another student laughed so hard soda came out of his nose.  Poor guy, his quote of the night was, “It burns!” 

The High schoolers also focused a bit on the soda.  On the way down to the youth room a student was saying how soda machines at school are  over $2.  The machine in the youth room is stuck at $.50.  She said, I think of that price and then say, “I’ll wait.”  One young man has a habit of spilling soda so he put the can far from his chair – between where Bobby sits and we do.  Another student followed in suit and this resulted in many people pretending they would kick the full can or tip it over in some way.  Bobby was chagrined.  “Why would you put it that far out?”  And the answer, “Because it will spill when I put it under my chair.”  Well, the inevitable happened, one did spill anyway.  Such is life.  Later . . . during the lesson . . . Bobby had to mention that, “All have sinned and come short of the glory of God like people who spill drinks on our carpet.“ The young man piped up, “Bobby I’ve been clean for a while!”

I delight in the antics of those I have the honor to spend time with.  Our youth are so fun.  May you also find joy in the people around you.  Love and hugs,

 

 

Cristy

 PS I am working on a new book.  This time with some of Adriel's drawings and some AI.  How fun.