10/26/25 NAB retreat

 

Dear Family,

 

               I must admit, my favorite blessing this week made me wiggle with joy at first but then cringe a bit as I became saturated.  McDonalds Monopoly is happening and I still have about 10 free items to claim (from using digital entries).  Yet, I will have to admit, there is too much of a good thing even from my favorite restaurant.  I can only eat so many free apple-pie pastries before I’m done.

               Ahhhhh, but youth group always has so many fun instances of silliness and learning about God in the best ways. Several new people came, and I loved that during lesson time one young person was eager for their friend to hear the gospel message. Bobby asked, “What is a reason we can rejoice?”  Their answer was, “We can rejoice that being saved only means you have to believe.”  There it is folks, grace. Our salvation is through God’s grace.  Bobby did take that and run with the explanation of Jesus dying for our sins.  Yay!!

               Bobby then talked about how happiness is external – about something you just got (like my free McDonalds food) and joy is internal.  Joy lasts.  His illustration was, “How do you think Rich would feel if I gave him a new truck?”  Rich said, “Uhhh, awkward.”  I piped in, “Because he would be wondering what your wife thought of this purchase.”  I was not shy about my disapproval.  Bobby’s retort, “You are ruining my example.”  I think our youth did understand what he was talking about though.  He went on to say that if the new truck was scratched the joy might be lost. 

               The illustration went over much better during High School group when Bobby mentioned, “What if I was to buy Everest a new truck.”  Now that person, he lit up with evidence that this action would give him much happiness.  It was fun to watch.

               Sometimes Bobby’s fill in the blanks are such big college words people say, “I don’t like that word,” or, “Stupid word!”  Bobby countered with, “I’m rejoicing in your presence – even though you are wrong.”  I am glad we have fun with the youth.  They are a blast to be around.

               This weekend was the Seaside pastors retreat.  Rainy thought it was we praised God in heartfelt worship, soaked in God’s word and even had some fun private aerobics early in the morning.  Also, the picture above was a lovely time with the pastors of West Hills.

               During the conference I enjoyed hearing how other churches are doing, what God is doing in their places of ministry, AND what God can do with missions and NAB.  God is truly at work, and I am excited to be part of it. Also, it was fun to play Azul with friends.  They loved the game and so did I.

               May you find that each adventure God gives you is a blessing.  May your life reflect how much God loves you.  May you enjoy life, be a giving person and find strength in knowing you are loved quite dearly.

 

Hugs, Cristy

10/19/25

 

Dear family,

 

Being over the hill isn’t that bad at all.  I can still ride my bicycle over hills, and that is a big deal to me.  When I lose that ability, I will be sad.  For now, I feel blessed.  I am very glad for that mode of transportation.  It saves us $100 of gas a month, and who knows, in parking.  I also enjoy the commute.  I am thrilled to see the changing weather and the beautiful town we live in.

Middle school group had four new faces.  It was fun to greet a Corban student while trying to figure out her fit.  I thought I got it when I said, “You are not a middle schooler, you are a parent!”  Nope, someone figuring out if helping out would be a good fit.  Ohhhh, how fun.  We also had three wiggly boys.  They were super disruptive but so endearing as well.  Bobby’s estimation of the night: “That was fun.”

Bobby mentioned a story during the lesson about being wanted.  God chooses us.  Bobby remembered a time when he was playing football with a new group of people on Thanksgiving Day.  They chose teams like middle school, and he was picked last because he was older and smaller.  That brought back some feelings.  The next year, though, he was picked first (which was fun for him).  The man who picked him said, “I just picked you because I don’t want to ever be tackled by you again.”  This brought some comments.  “That is real,” which also meant, “I don’t want to ever get tackled by you either.”  Some of our students are smaller, but one thing they do know.  Bobby has force, energy, and strength, and that is just his personality!

One more interaction made me smile.  One person asked another, “Why don’t you like your face getting wet?”  The answer was said firmly stated as the obvious.  “Autism.”  And that makes moms of people with Autism smile.  Yes, that would do it.  Sensory issues are a thing.

High school group also has some fun times.  When Bobby asked us to write down three characteristics of our personality, he didn’t expect to hear this one from one of our older males, “I start listening to Christmas music in September.”  This was hard for Bobby to comprehend.

There was a point when Bobby couldn’t find his phone.  He looked around, and I asked if he wanted me to call him.  Rich mentioned it didn’t matter since it was on silent.  Lo and behold, it was right next to Rich.  The thief, who was chuckling. 

I enjoy shenanigans.  I love laughing.  May you also enjoy when people give you that interesting kind of attention, and may your joy be complete when your life is still OK, especially since it will not matter in five years. 

Much love, Cristy

And that picture?  Well I found a friend that wants plants so instead of having to put them free on the sidewalk she gladly took them.  Yay!

I am now 50 years old

 

Dear Family,

                Celebrating is so much fun.  I am glad for time to enjoy family when my Birthday came around this year.  Thank you also friends, for your birthday wishes. You are so kind 😊.

               Youth group continues to be fun.  During lesson time, when a leader asked, “Do we need to be saved just once?”  A teen had to tell his story.  He’s been saved six times (prayed the prayer) and baptized four times (once professionally).  This young man brought up that he’s baptized himself the other three.

               I had to crack up when the kids pushed Bobby several times with,  “Are we your favorite youth group?”  Finally, he said, “Yeah, sure, whatever.”  Then had to mention that one of the kids has now turned 40 from our first youth group.  We have a lifetime relationship with some people.  We can’t say anyone is our favorite really.  But it was funny when the youth said, “Yes!”

               When Bobby said, “Tell me something that is better when old. We had answers varying from movies (better than the remake), house “It has memories”, coins, and Bobby’s favorite was, “Rich”.  We didn’t know him when he was younger but we do know we like Rich now – especially in his Ripe old age, LOL.

               When Bobby mentioned our youth can volunteer during the church Candy Fest the youth had questions especially regarding “No scary Costumes”.  One person wondered if they could dress as a Llama.  Bobby said that was, “OK.”  The youth agreed, “Yeah, I’m sure no one has PTSD over llamas.”

               During High school group a while back, Bobby switched the candle numbers on Rich’s treats.  This was a silly joke saying Rich is 65 not 56.  One youth said, “It doesn’t matter.  You guys are all pretty immortal to me. . . Anyone over 40 is.”  Old is old right?

               I enjoyed turning 50 this week.  Bobby and I took some time to rest in Eugene.  We also joined our kids and my parents in Portland for a meal.  I love the hugs, laughter and smiles we share.  It is a blessing to gather and be together.

               May you also enjoy your Birthdays large or small.  May gathering bring happy memories and good time.

Love and hugs,

 

Cristy

10/5/25

 

Dear Family,

 

               I felt so overwhelmed this week I poured Ranch into my cereal Thursday evening.  I am so glad Bobby was patient with me.  I left early from Middle school group and he didn’t bat an eye.  Having a full month ahead gave me “deer in the headlights” feels.  So, instead of just resting like we normally do on a Thursday he was OK with me finishing up our month end financials and creating a snack for the women’s retreat.  I am glad he didn’t pressure me to sit with him. 

               Tuesday night was fun even with the stress.  I enjoy the laughter we share as the youth try to figure out Bobby’s fill in the blanks.  He wanted us to S_ _ _ _ _ to l _ _ _ like Jesus (Phil 2:3-8, Eph 5:1-2).  His hint about the S word was, “This is one of the things we do here.  It starts with an S.  Someone shouted out, “Cookie.”  Well – that was hilariously random.  I’ll share the answer at the end.

               As he was trying to make a point about “Growing in Christ.” He said, “Imagine Rich, old as he is, dressed in baby clothes.”  Bobby was trying to talk about how as we mature it shows.  What made me laugh is the groups reaction to the thought and one person’s verbalizing it, “I don’t want to,” about using our imagination that way.

               The High School group also had some fun moments.  Bobby does all this work setting up chairs, Bibles, prayer cards, clip boards and pens.  Then a majority of the youth sit to the side on the ground.  They do make me laugh.  When Bobby mentioned, “God has given us grace – which in Greek is Charis like Charisma.”  They took this and ran – “He has given us Rizz!”  This is a buzz word for being cool and they got quite excited about that.

               Women’s retreat was special this year because I brought a friend.  The food is always amazing.  The speaker had great wisdom and wonderful insights about the Bible.  We enjoyed so much time in nature and felt blessed, loved and filled.  My friends favorite thing was a large swing that holds four people.  I loved sharing time with her and our other church ladies.

               May you also love spending time with those around you.  May our Lords nature fill your heart and mind with how truly amazing He is.

Love and hugs,

 

 

Cristy

The answer for the fill in the blanks was, “Strive to live like Jesus.”

9/28/25

 

Dear family,

 

Ah, the beginning of school, new starts are always fraught with the unknown.  I remember dreaming of going to the wrong class or forgetting to wear pants.  I am so glad I don’t have to go to school anymore.  Yet I am glad our children persist even in their college years.  Paying to learn is terrible but it’s tradition in our family so I am glad Seth and Adriel continue to strive towards a degree. 

Middle school youth are so fun.  During the message Bobby mentioned that a bad combination would be ice cream and ketchup.  One student became very excited, “I would eat that!”  Oh dear.  Another student laughed so hard soda came out of his nose.  Poor guy, his quote of the night was, “It burns!” 

The High schoolers also focused a bit on the soda.  On the way down to the youth room a student was saying how soda machines at school are  over $2.  The machine in the youth room is stuck at $.50.  She said, I think of that price and then say, “I’ll wait.”  One young man has a habit of spilling soda so he put the can far from his chair – between where Bobby sits and we do.  Another student followed in suit and this resulted in many people pretending they would kick the full can or tip it over in some way.  Bobby was chagrined.  “Why would you put it that far out?”  And the answer, “Because it will spill when I put it under my chair.”  Well, the inevitable happened, one did spill anyway.  Such is life.  Later . . . during the lesson . . . Bobby had to mention that, “All have sinned and come short of the glory of God like people who spill drinks on our carpet.“ The young man piped up, “Bobby I’ve been clean for a while!”

I delight in the antics of those I have the honor to spend time with.  Our youth are so fun.  May you also find joy in the people around you.  Love and hugs,

 

 

Cristy

 PS I am working on a new book.  This time with some of Adriel's drawings and some AI.  How fun.

9/21/25

 

Dear Family,

 

               Youth group has started up again!  Hooray!  Bobby is explaining how we can grow in our relationship with God and it’s great.  He also explained that being a baby Christian only lasts so long.  He had us imagine four chairs; the left one was smaller and the ones to the right got bigger as people matured.  He said, “We don’t want to stay in the baby chair our whole lives.”  One student moved a chair to the right which was funny.  He proved his desire to grow by hopping a seat.

               Two lovely middle school girls sat next to me, and I felt so special and chosen.  I do have relationships with them already but, that they came to my assigned seat was lovely.  I sit behind the rowdy boys so I can “flick their ears” if necessary.  LOL, don’t worry, I don’t actually do it, just threaten.

               High school group was also delightful.  I enjoyed the people so much and yet it was sad.  One of our families moved to another state so that was their last week.  We will miss them very much.

               I have to mention this because I think it’s hilarious. In an effort to comfort myself about being cheap I posted a picture of my cut finger on “Next Door”.  This is a place I felt anonymous and yet could get some advice (scorn if needed) if it was that serious.  I mean if all your neighbors tell you to see Urgent Care . . . Well, most people said I should be fine and gave over 40 posts of advice which cracks me up.  My finger has a following.

               Adriel and Seth remain a loving example of how great a parents we are.  LOL it’s true but funny how I had to make it about me right?  Anyway, Adriel convinced me not to use Temu (Yes, I spelled it wrong on purpose) because of child labor.  When I looked it up it wasn’t just child labor it was forced child labor that was a risk.  I can’t shop when someone shows that to me so blatantly.  I am sad, they have adorable, cute, items that are cat themed. ☹.  Above is a picture of our cat to soften the T blow.

               May you also find wisdom from the young, strength from our Lord and grace from His forgiveness flowing in and through us.

               Love and Hugs, Cristy 

9/14/25

 

Dear Family,

 

I enjoyed phone conversations the most this week.  One day I called Adriel and she didn’t answer.  I then called Seth because if I can get them both on the phone that can result in a fun conversation.  Seth was, “In the middle of something.”  When I alluded that a lot had happened since our last talk he just said, “Um, I don’t think I can do two things at once so, sorry, I’m going to go.”  Adriel then called back.  She was in the middle of planning a BBQ, working from home, talking to me and several other people.  She eventually did hang up after some pleasantries.  I had to laugh because both of my children are and have been so, so different all their lives.  How fun.

Tuesday night youth group had a BBQ for the middle schoolers and Wednesday night for the High School group.  It was amazing food, great fun and “The game of things”.  I love that game!  One question said, “Things that take too much time. . . “ Answers included, “Talking with Bobby, deportation, training a spouse,” I am NOT saying any of those are true but I am saying there was a lot of shock and laughter.  Another was, “Things I have too much of,” Answers ranged from, “Opinions, to clothes.”  We were supposed to guess who said clothes and a boy pointed to the girls, “One of their kind.” Was his guess.  Another was, too much, “Rizz”  When people guessed a certain person he said, “Not me (I didn’t write it), but I do (have too much rizz)”, Also, “boyfriends”, and “dresses in my closet” were some pretty funny answers.  I enjoy the laughter.

We had a special guest appearance and the toddlers antics were much appreciated by all.  Especially when Ronan took some lavender and ate it – just – raw.  This brought curiosity and several of us had to try it.  I did later from my own garden – how interesting lavender tastes pretty good, all by itself.

I asked for and received a very short hair cut.  I love it because it bugs me when hair gets into my face or eyes.  Bobby isn’t very happy – he did pray that it would grow fast.  Seth doesn’t care but I told him he could at least say, “Nice haircut.”  Bobby said, you can say, “You are still pretty.”  It’s funny how our outward appearance does affect others.  Care or not we can notice and be nice about it or mean.  I mostly don’t care about what it looks like.  My hair is going to be crazy no matter what kind of cut I have.

One incident did make me smile every time I remembered it.  Music day is once a year.  I remember being a host when Adriel was in band.  I was bringing band kids door to door to ask for cans, cash or check.  Many a youth was terrified to talk.  I enjoy being prepared so we had a check ready and taped to the inside of the door.  They rang the doorbell at 9:30 AM which felt quite early for a Saturday.  Yet, there they were in full band uniform.  Before they could say their not yet memorized talk I handed them the check and the response was fun, “Awesome!”  I still smile, thinking of all the times there was so much angst.  I can support the music program.  I believe it’s good for people to train their brains in that way.

May you also delight in supporting causes you believe in.  May you find joy in knowing you are loved, cared for and cherished by your creator.  Hugs, and love, Cristy

 

9/7/25

 Dear Family,

 

               I am so glad we had time to gather on Labor Day.  I enjoyed spending time with friends and our kids.  I enjoy time with those close to us.  Bobby and Costco made strawberry short cake and it was delicious.

               The rest to the week went quite well.  I enjoyed seeing Bobby when he came back from his trip to fish with his dad.  They didn’t keep any fish for us to eat but Bobby came home with beef.  That was fun.  Bobby made shepherds pie and it’s gone already.

               In the time I had without Bobby I have been plugging away at getting my best book so far into Shutterfly.  It’s a process because I made the text three colors in different parts so that is tedious but it’s coming along, and I am getting excited about it.

               Adriel mentioned she is happy, and I am glad for her.  She is moving into a new place, still has two jobs and one class to finish for college.  Her future looks bright.

               Seth mentioned he will continue to walk to church even when he gets his car back from the shop.  I guess a transmission is hard to fix because Harolds has had it over two months.  The walk to and from church is a pleasant one when it’s not raining.  Well see if he still wants to do that walk in the rain when he has a car.  Bobby doesn’t.

               May you find joy in knowing our Lord, wisdom in seeking His will and love for each person you encounter this week. Love and hugs, Cristy

9/1/25

 Dear Family,

Bobby left for a camping trip with some youth, and Rich Duval.  I feel blessed that I can hold down the fort and have evening dates with friends.  I so enjoy teaching someone to drive, going out to eat with another, helping her move, prayer group and having time to be with people I love.  Yes, I love Bobby and I’m glad when he is home.  But even when he is not home, my life is so full and wonderful.

I also enjoyed a peaceful evening to myself.  Puttering around the house, cleaning, enjoying the silence and having time to do whatever I want.  Ahhh, such a feeling of freedom.  I love that.

Adriel and Seth chatted with me Thursday for my lunch break and I enjoyed talking to them both so very, very much.

It was so good that Bobby came home safe and sound.  He had some fun camping stories to tell and that was nice.  This week we did go to the fair one day.  So many things to look at! So many shows!  The racing pigs were so cute I cried tears of joy.  When the announcer said they were racing baby dianosaurs I had to laugh.  The little girl next to me was incredulous, "There's no such thing as baby dinausoars!  Well, sheep in dino costumes was good fun as well.  (Pictured above).

The fire dancer/acrobatics of another show were so amazing!  The entire crowd was gasping, oohing and in awe.  Some people are great at their jobs.  I did imagine how they could loose their job though – if the trees catch fire on a toss, if a person let’s go accidentally of their partner and, yikes.  Anyway, as an older person who now sees many creative ways people loose their jobs that’s where my mind went.  Also – repetitive motion injuries.  His neck is going to feel that later (as she is spinning and only being held on by a strap on his neck).

Ahh, then the building with massage chairs, EMS units, food and makeup samples.  After three massage chairs didn’t make my cut (not digging into me deeply enough).  He said, “Well you need a new bed then.”  Bobby asked, as I was trying out a new bed, “How did you get over here?”  My over relaxed body said in bewilderment, “I don’t quite know.”  We enjoyed ourselves greatly 😊.  No need for rides, I was sore enough from being on my feet all day.

How fun to have excitement come to our doorstep.  May you also enjoy God’s people, critters and joy as he delivers divine appointments, OH YEAH, we saw so many people we know and it was super fun to catch up.  How delightful!  Also wearing our Rooted youth group shirts was a conversation topic which was fun.  Yay God!

Anyway, may you enjoy God’s timing, beauty and creativity in creation.  Much love, Cristy

8/25/25

 Dear Family

               Last week was pleasant. It feels like there isn’t much to write about, but God brought to mind several things.

               Our friend Adam preached a Sermon a while back that had Bobby featured in it.  The first illustration had me completely grossed out but by the end of the sermon I was crying so – that was neat.  The interesting thing is that although I feel I might have heard these stories – they were presented through Adam’s eyes, so they took on new profound meaning.  And that’s how it is when we read the Bible or hear it through sermon as well.  If you would also like to listen to the sermon it’s at https://branches.tv/messages?sapurl=LythY2FhL2xiL21zLyszMnBocWR6P2JyYW5kaW5nPXRydWUmZW1iZWQ9dHJ1ZSZyZWNlbnRSb3V0ZT1hcHAud2ViLWFwcC5saWJyYXJ5Lmxpc3QmcmVjZW50Um91dGVTbHVnPSUyQmZ0bjNoNGs=

(You will have to search for Adam Pinkston’s name and if you want to skip the music it’s about a half an hour in.)

               The youth group did go on a trip to get ice cream on Wednesday night.  I enjoyed our chats.  Watching people grow up is such an honor.  They start so small.  Then they are taller than I am, and I love that.  Sometimes they are silly and sometimes our talks are serious.  How fun to enjoy a deep conversation with someone you have known for years.

               Adriel and I enjoy talking on the phone.  She plans on moving soon so please pray for her wisdom as to where to move and with whom.  The destination has been iffy, but I think she may have found a friend of her roommate that will fit the bill – someone responsible.  Yay!

               Seth has almost run out of housework because he has been so diligent AND because not watering in the summer means less weeds.  The garden is manageable and that is an amazing blessing.  Last week he cleaned cobwebs off outside lights and did some weeding in the lawn.  I feel so blessed that he works hard and is helpful.

               I have felt motivated to add my latest book to the Shutterfly archives.  It’s an expensive way to get a book printed but because I want my books to be hard cover it’s worth it to me.  I don’t have any visions of grandeur, desire to travel the world selling my books or thoughts I might become famous any more.  The books did not sell themselves. Even so I do want a way to get them printed for gifts and I only have two of the latest book left.  I’m on page three and it’s pretty tedious.  Please pray with me that I stay motivated if God wants me to do this.

               May you also find strength in doing what you think He wants you to do.  May you enjoy His blessings, His love, His comfort and any AC you find.  Love and hugs, Cristy

              

              

8/17/25

 

Dear Family,

 

               Color wars was the highlight this week.  Bobby planned for everyone to have white shirts and this made everyone want to participate more.  That is the first time I have received any color at these events.  Usually, I stay clear and feel respected.  This time I had some hugs and felt loved.  Interesting.  Either way, we have new comers who are curious what kind of church does a color extravaganza and that is fun.

               Seth continues to help with the house, this week he washed the outside windows.  I really appreciate the help.

               Bobby has been home and I have enjoyed his presence immensely.  We did have a date night this week and it’s fun to just be together.  I enjoy that he cooks and love that he makes our house smell good. 

               Adriel made it home safe from her second week of camp and I am glad for that.  She is constantly on the go but sounded healthy and tired.

               I am excited for the future and glad for the past.  May you have memories to warm your heart and plans to give you hope.  Much love, Cristy

8/10/25

 

Dear family,

 

               The latest person I have enjoyed watching learn to drive is four years old.  She was backing out of spaces, possibly running snakes over and enjoying the good life.  It’s funny to see a youngster in a toy car.  There are many similar concepts to learn; what way does the vehicle move when backing up and turning the wheel, not running grandma over, driving while turned backwards.  (Well, maybe not that last one.)  I enjoy my adopted family and was so glad when they decided we don’t really need candles to be on the cake for blowing out.  Candles on cake was a pretty yucky tradition if you have Covid in your thought processes.

               Either way I am so glad for my church family.  You are my friends and I am glad to enjoy your company while Bobby takes yet another trip.  He was home for a couple days.  There was enough time for water balloon volleyball.  There is more skill than you would ever guess for throwing a water balloon out of a beach towel.  It’s a skill that we probably won’t have to use . . . ever. . . so no one practices during the year.  I enjoy watching and the kids have fun every time.  We have a great group of lovely people.  Each one is a blessing to see when we do have youth group. 

               Seth continues to do beautiful landscaping and I appreciate his efforts so much.  Our yard is manageable this year, yeah!!  Since Seth has done so much work I haven’t cried once because the yard was overwhelming.  Seth even swept our sidewalk.  It’s so beautiful!  I then had time to take my wheel barrel and clean up two or three other blocks on Wallace that were trashy.  I bicycle every day and want to live in a clean neighborhood.  During that task I saw a lovely lady from church and had several amazing interactions with neighbors.  I felt so loved, blessed and happy to live exactly where I live.  Seth’s efforts made my Saturday morning amazing.

               Adriel has embarked on a journey of being a camp counselor for a couple of weeks.  Please pray with me for her to have good health, good times and energy for the tasks she has to do.  I don’t know what hours she is there but I am guessing she is tired.  She did have an amazing week last week and has a new appreciation for caregiving and camp in general.

               Bobby came home early from his 100 mile hike for an entirely different reason than past hikes.  No tent malfunctions, fire, or extreme mosquitoes.  This time they simply hiked faster than expected. How fun.  Bobby was home just in time to help Seth spread gravel.  He was so excited about that. 😉.

               May you enjoy God’s gifts, know how loved you are and delight in the sun, rain, stars and beauty that we are surrounded with.

 

Love and hugs, Cristy 

7/27/25

 

Dear Family,

 

               Taking time off to visit family for a Birthday is not only the right thing to do but a fabulous, wholesome, feel good adventure.  I can’t express how fulfilling it is to be with people that love you to the depths of your toes and tippy top of your head.  My parents seem to hang on our every words and it is a large dose of encouragement just because we took time to be there.  I am glad we went.  Dad enjoyed his Birthday and we all enjoyed spending time together.

I must admit, this is a funny blessing.  I enjoy staying at the Holiday Inn in Bothell not only because of points but because answering their question of the week can get more points.  Here is the question.  “What breaks even if you don’t touch it?” I’ll give some answers and the right answer at the end.

               What a blessing to see my sister and her offspring.  I can’t say children since half of them are grown up.  It was wonderful to hear how their plans are clipping along.  We enjoy seeing them and giving good long hugs.  We are so blessed to know them and be a part of their lives. 

               OK the answer to the riddle wasn’t, your heart – (which was my initial guess but they said no).  A next guess was a funny one – wind.  I had to mention it because there was a chuckle.  I also asked family to chime in and Adriel asked if it was, “A car?”  (This, because of her many car troubles.)  No, the answer is a promise.  Well, I think all of them were good answers, but a promise worked for the points and that was fun.

               May you also enjoy family, friends, riddles and just plain wonderful times,

 

Much love,

 

Cristy

              

 

7/21/22

 Dear Family,

 

               Can we call it good that another week passed without anything bad happening?  Adriel is eating solids again.  Yay! Seth continues to help with the garden and I truly, truly appreciate that.  Bobby came home safe from his third week of camp.  There were no problems with Bees this week.  I enjoyed visiting several friends and work continues to be delightful.  The Gladiolas are so happy and in three places in the yard.  I am glad my body still works well enough to maintain the yard. 

               I do have several funny stories.  The service today (Sunday) was wonderful.  Not just because of a baptism service but because the pastor asked us to remember last week and how we were supposed to study the Bible like a ______.  I answered "Chicken" loud enough that the people around me heard and gave me some curious looks.  When pastor said, "Like a chicken" I was so excited I shouted, "Yes!  I was right!"  This brought laughter (It is a midsized around 2-300 people church so usually the congregation doesn't shout like that) but it was funny.  The pastor mentioned, "Just so you don't wonder about our church's theology, what we mean is that instead of studying a verse or two here or there - like chicken nuggets - we should also study the Bible in totality.  This way we see all the themes woven throughout it - so we know what the whole Bible is.  Studying the Bible like a chicken means to study the whole Bible - not just nuggets here or there."  I was excited that I remembered something from last week.  My memory isn't always the best, but I guess when you bring food into the conversation, I will remember it better. 

               Another fun story.  I was able to gift my book “Star’s Big Fight” to a friend’s 7 year old for his Birthday.  He was reading it in his room and excitedly said, “Mom!  This is a real family!  It’s a real story.”  It was at that time my friend figured out I had written the book.  That was fun.  I did feel joy that the story took on new meaning when they figured out,they knew the author. 

               May you also find more meaning in our Bible, knowing God makes it an even better book.  Much love,

 

 

Cristy

7/13/25

 

Dear Family,

 

               It’s amazing how breaks really do inspire us.  Because I had a week off from picking raspberries I was ok with picking them most of this week AND since there is only one row, it’s not really that big of a deal.  Another interesting thing – I’m back to watering again.  I am so excited about Gladiolus.  They are showing signs of being amazingly beautiful.  I can’t wait to see what other colors pop up.

               Friends had me over this week and I enjoyed chatting, sitting and being blessed by their company.  I also am teaching a former coworker from Freddies how to drive.  That is super fun.  I forgot how much I enjoyed her company.

               Adriel suffered from bad health so much that she lost enough weight to go down a couple of pants sizes.  She is on the mend but please pray with us for her health.

               Bobby came back safe and sound.  He wasn’t as tired this time because they went to bed around 10 instead of 11 every night.  Poor High Schoolers!  Either way he had stories to tell, and it was interesting to hear them.  There was an incident with bees.

               Seth continues to help in the garden and I am blessed. 

               May you also bless others, just like Seth does 😊.  May you find strength from God and may it flow with power out to all you encounter.  This is so that Matthew 5:16 might be fulfilled, “Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”  If you want a purpose statement, there it is 😊.  Love and hugs,

 

 

Cristy

7/6/25

 

Dear Family,

 

               This week the youth group enjoyed visiting the Duval household for a night of root beer floats, smores and hot dogs.  It was a lovely time.  I did have to ask about bottles upside down on sticks.  That looked weird to me.  (Pictured above).  Rich said, “That’s for the tree coats.”  I was intrigued – was this a coat rack?  “Oh you put coats on there?”  No, not human coats, tree or bush coats – I guess to keep the bush warm. What an interesting Idea.  One person did get a chuckle out of the mental imagery of me putting human coats all over a bush.

               Having Bobby home was nice.  I didn’t pick raspberries at all, and he did pick several times.  He used a lot of them for Raspberry Ginger pie which is very yummy.  I am still enjoying the fruits of his labor.  I like that he is nice to me. 

               God taught me a lesson last week and it’s been thought provoking.  Last week the raspberries went four days without being picked.  I usually panic a bit thinking they will fall on the path, become not only a sticky mess BUT create more vines that will attack anyone who wants to pick.  This did not happen.  They were hanging on just fine and presented themselves quite well.  A tiny bit overdone but that is the way Bobby likes them.  I felt God saying, “See, I hold them together for you.  This verse sums it up.  “Therefore, do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”  Matthew 6:34 NIV

               That verse was also something that sums up the interaction I saw as I was driving home at 9pm on the 4^th.  I saw a weeping child.  His dad was trying to give him a sparkler.  That ties in with this verse to me.  Sometimes Gods plans are more than we think we can handle.  Yet, God is trying to bless us.  If we let go of our anxiety, put our hands out and take what he gives, it might just be fun.

               Love and hugs,

 

 

Cristy

 

              

6/29/25

 

Dear Family,

 

               I was guessing this week might be a little lonely.  Bobby being gone at camp is one thing.  No youth group is another. I tried to be proactive and asked three people to pick raspberries with me (none did this week).  Yet, I have fabulous co-workers, an amazing prayer group to go to and of course, I’m never alone, there is always God.  I enjoy singing praises as I bicycle to and from work.  I have also really been enjoying devotionals from the Bible project (https://bibleproject.com/).

               Sometimes I see Seth.  It’s very nice that he helps with yard work.  God grows it and these days, we are pruning and cutting things back.  I put out free daisies and Lambs ear on the curb twice this week and they are gone.  If anyone wants some just let me know, I can either point where to dig or dig with you if you are available at 5:40 AM on weekdays.  I do 5 min a day 5:40-5:55AM.  (Except Saturday -Saturday might be later and I take more time).

               I did get to bring Adriel medicine and frozen raspberries.  She has a cough and wasn’t feeling well this week.  It was good to see her and enjoy her company.  She has always been such a wonderful person.  Her gifts are exploding in so many ways.  She gave me some gladiolas a couple of years ago.  I divided them into three spots in the garden.  Now they are coming up in all three! 

               Bobby came home on Saturday, and I enjoyed seeing him.  He is tired but this week should be rejuvenating.  Yay, a four-day work week.  May you enjoy it as well – (Happy Canada day to my Canadian relatives).  Much love,

 

 

Cristy

6/22/25

 

Dear Family,

 

          How fun it is to gather with family!  I would love to share a photo of our father’s day excursion to “Por que no” but I was informed that it wasn’t mother’s day so no one was willing to pose.  Go figure.  Well, Bobby, Seth and I went to Portland to have lunch with Adriel and we enjoyed it immensely.  Boy was I full – no dinner necessary that night.

          The rest of the week was different than normal.  Summer schedule doesn’t include regular weekly youth meetings.  Bobby spent a lot of time getting ready for camp. 

I did water our one unbroken Lilly and tied it up.  It then rejoiced into bloom and that was fun.  It’s pictured above.

          Bobby and I enjoyed catching up with old friends from Gold Beach.  We hadn’t seen each other for maybe 18 years.  Our kids used to play together, well, kind of, Seth was little and their youngest hadn’t been born yet.  But, we had mommy time while caring for our children together.  Anyway, it was nice seeing them.

          The next night Bobby and I enjoyed a date.  The calm before the – well – even calmer for me.  Bobby will be at camp a lot this summer so I’ll load up on library books or invite myself over to your place.  😊.

          May you enjoy the summer days we have coming.  May your heart be full and your pets be sweet.

 

Much love,

 

 

Cristy

6/16/25

 Dear Family,

 

               When we choose to celebrate even in hard times, we are glad we came.  And that is what Seth said about his uncle’s celebration of life.  How drastically sad that my brother-in-law has passed away and yet how beautiful that we saw his life on the screen.  We found out so many things we didn’t know about him.  We love him more for that and we find joy in knowing that his memory will go on and his children will be his legacy.  They are such amazing people.  We are blessed to know them.

               Bobby drove both ways and chatted with Adriel so much I was amazed that they really had that many words.  But they did!  I am glad Adriel kept him Awake because the drive was late at night. I dozed most of the way home.

               We socialized with my parents while in the Seattle area and it was interesting to find out why dad has decided to use a walker.  First, he did fall six times in two weeks.  That probably hurt, but even more than the peer pressure everywhere he went were the testimonials of friends who fell and broke body parts.  That would be a cautionary tale.  My dad is good at crumpling instead of slamming into things.  Dad falls with style.  We talked about how that was good and Seth teased by pretending to fall while saying, “This was plaaaaned.”  I thought that was pretty funny.  I am glad we can laugh about growing older.  “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”  James 1:2.

               One of the many things Bobby is good at is throwing a party.  Our end of the school year bash went off quite well!  He had chicken, steak, rice and noodles.  One rice was tasty fried rice.  We have watched enough “Uncle Roger” on YouTube for him to know the rice had to be refrigerated overnight.  I enjoy comedy, Bobby enjoys learning things – it’s both!  Yay.  And we didn’t run out of food even though over 50 people came.  The above picture is from that event.

               Bobby made yummy food other nights for our family.  I feel so blessed to be his.  I kind of wish I had his stamina when it comes to socializing.  I want to love people more but run out of energy and my body just hurts.  He went to three parties last weekend.  Then he went to three more this last weekend.  I only lasted at one this weekend.  I wanted to go to the other one but I pooped out.  Maybe I should find some vita-vita-vegamin.  As it is, I have my own prescription pain killer and that helped me recover from the one party.  Some of our youth are so special – I want to honor and celebrate them but goodness.  I only have so much energy.

               May you also enjoy the people you are surrounded by.  May you find grace and love to be kind to all.  May you have enough energy to find joy in all God has for you.

 

Much love, Cristy